Actually, she had a fantasy about someone PRETENDING to rape her. If she actually had a full-on rape fantasy, she would stroll around bad neighborhoods at night dressed in lingerie, looking lost and confused, waiting for someone to actually rape her.

I was the sort of person who would never have let myself be vulnerable prior to meeting my ex. What he’s done to me is so unfathomable, and has nearly destroyed me. I stayed way too long mostly because I was in it to win it, and truthfully, I had nowhere to go and no money to manage it. Then he imploded our marriage.

I have heard that it’s better to support amateur porn as presented by willing participants. The glossy BS put out by mostly men should be retired. Let’s get real. And enough with women being mistreated, in whatever industry...or in life.

freedom units - goddamn!

Some other considerations:

There are lots of types of privilege - check these for yourself:

“not really down”

Well, well. I’m sure if you were a full-time caregiver to children or ill parents or if you had medical or psychological conditions (disability, injury, illness, major stress) to deal with you’d get over yourself right quick. Congratulations, you sound like a lot of fun.

Still sad about the demise of Omni magazine..

This is old news:

Texts are telegrams.

Thanks. Good to know. Some people put their credit cards inside their cellphone cases, though, and those strips could get affected.

These are all great, but the Dorothy ones would need to be worn outside the pants.

Aren’t magnets a no-no for electronics?

I propose that every U.S. citizen has to do the following:

The show? What about that movie (ugh). It’s always about a fucking white dress. Even when it isn’t.

I once was asked to proof an ad mock-up for a prominent US bank at this big ad agency run by men. The concept was “we make your dreams come true.” The idea was that a member of this generous bank would take out a loan or invest money there in order to go after what they wanted in life, either by going to school,…

Is it possible you’re becoming burned out and jaded? You are seeing the worst of things, because amicable divorces and agreeable co-parents don’t need your services. I urge you to reach out to spend time with parents and kids of divorce who do work things out decently, if not perfectly. Perhaps part of why divorce is…

I hate to bring up any Minority Report/1984 paranoia, but really, if we’ve got permanent cameras in place in cars, on streets, and in stores and government buildings, it won’t be long before we have 24/7/365 cameras lodged in our eyes and a satellite observing us at all times. This would be horrible, but could avoid…

Maybe it was a magical reception.