“I was lonely with him. The worst. There is nothing worse” This. %100 Mandy. I can be alone, alone and be so much happier. Being alone with someone right there in the room is the loneliest feeling in the world.

The empathy is literally a qualifying characteristics for what a narcissist looks for. 18 years for me....just figured it out this past year.  Getting out of the fog is wonderful. He's moving out in July.

Mine’s a Casey too! And yes they smell empathy. My ex MIL tried to explain to me that it was *totes a good thing* for him to get remarried right away and abandon all hope of him parenting our children ever because “he needs someone, you know, and I can’t do it all” BITCH NO ONE CAN, and you enabled him to believe that…

This right here. Mandy is a perfect example of not forgiving someone (or I don’t get the sense she has) but not being mired in hate and anger either. She’s very empirical about the whole thing, and I admire her for it.

Mandy is definitely speaking a truth a lot of women can identify with. I think most of us have dated a Ryan Adams, myself included.

I think the line was far more about the tragedy of his story rather than the choices he made that put that spear in his chest and, more to the point, a great line for a villain (especially in a Marvel movie). He was angry and defiant, completely oblivious of the context of his actions, until his dying breath because…

It was a country that he had to fight, murder, connive, steal and bribe his way into, though, despite being a birthright citizen who had committed no crimes, because his uncle decided that it would be politically awkward to bring him home instead of condemning him to a life of poverty in a nation traditionally really…

That extra $215 million doesn’t exist and it never will. The vast majority of people who jump turnstiles or sneak in through emergency exits either won’t or can’t afford to pay either way.

I’ve ridden the NYC subway system pretty much 7 days a week at all hours for the last 30 years and I’ve never seen anyone masturbating. However, long ago, a disheveled panhandler came through my subway car with his penis exposed. I was standing and gave him a dollar and said, “You’re kind of...hanging out down…

If you can’t parse what she’s saying but the rest of us can, doesn’t that make you the idiot?

No, she only sounds ‘stupid’ if you have white supremacist ideals of English language usage. Because it’s a living language with multiple colonized cultures participating in the growth of the language her usage is no less valid than that of an upper middleclass suburbanite’s, nor an Australian aboriginal’s, nor the…

This warms my heart. Honestly I feel like if she did pursue becoming a teacher one day, she’d be really good at it because she could be relatable and engagingand fun and students need more of that.

Some people consider the friends that DO call them out on their bullshit to be the better friends.

Taking a political/moral stance and taking a beating for it is admirable, even if you’re wrong (she wasn’t). But becoming a pariah because you’re a super gross and admitted creep abuser? She didn’t deserve the vitriol and he deserves 10 times more. 

“And I really can’t see the Garofalo of the early 90s - the alt comic feminist - allowing a comic of that generation to skate so easily if they’d done something like that to her.”

How kind of him to prove her comment by providing a window into what it must have been like to be married to him. He is that terrible husband/bf who would be sweet when he wants sex but at every other moment roll his eyes/smirk/snark to demean his wife/gf tastes and ideas.

I’m sorry but what is this douche “really going through”? Why are we like....wishing him well? Why does everyone give this guy a pass? Why are we framing this as “Twitter consuming” him? When Trump spews his shit on Twitter, we blame the asshole spewing it, not the platform. “None of my love songs were about Mandy…

I was really happy when Liz Phair retweeted the pic I took of her at her show last month but that’s all I’ve got.

Yeah it must have been awful being married to Mandy Moore....

Not often you get to say good job MTV.