I’m sorry you had to deal with that bs along with a shit husband. Vent away as much as you need to. That’s what Saturday Night Social is for.

I know what you mean. In one-on-one therapy these men either find a way to manipulate the counselor or they quit.

Are you sure husband had 2 toxic counselors instead of 2 counselors having 1 toxic patient? Because that is straight up abuse what he’s done to you and your kid.

That’s what he’s told you. You may not know whether they were toxic or not.

It’s probably the most believably human skin tone they can achieve with HD cameras.

He also has that “does not go down on women” look; and the “but I want you to suck me off” look. That Republican look. Fact.

It is a big deal solely because she is a woman. In Trump world, the world revolves around Trump and his worldview which does not even see men and women as the same species.

There is such a thing as a good spray tan. My sister has them done occasionally before special occasions, and it’s very subtle and natural-looking.

“Look. I like you. But you’re, like, a 4 out of 10. That’s not good enough to beat spicey’s ratings. Definitely not. So you need to get up to at least a 6 out of 10. Hit the gym, cut back on the McDees, tan every once and a while...you know. Actually care about your body and appearance. Unlike now. Where you obviously…

Maybe the Hair and Makeup person could also do something about all the brown on Scaramucci’s nose.

Wait. This was last night. I thought I’d read ex in your comment. I hope my reply didn’t sound callous as a result. Sweetie, please start putting together a get out quick fund. This will only get worse.

:( Manipulation is the worst. I’m sorry you missed your night out :(

Do you have a safe place you can go to and take littlestar with you? (Better still a place you could kick him out to) He sounds like he could become quite dangerous. That’s not a minor stunt to pull.

It’s like these guys go to board meetings to learn all the same tactics of controlling behavior. The night I finally left, my ex did the suicide thing. He said maybe he did really need a therapist (which he’d been going to because it was a condition of our staying together. I found out in court that therapist knew…

Yes, to this. Absolutely yes.

I realized everything I did was not right, not enough, etc.

Yeah that’s my take too. It’s a whole bunch of projection and then they try to come up with either an “excuse” to break up, or they act assholish enough that you dump them and they can pretend to be the “good guy”.

I had an ex who pulled similar stunts. He would pick fights about bullshit like what I cooked for dinner (listen asswipe—you’re lucky I’m making dinner for you!). I figured out that he was instigating in order to get me to break up with him so he didn’t have to be the bad guy. Not saying that this is the case in your…

If I had to guess, I think the problem is what do we do with men who ingratiate themselves into feminist movements only to turn out to be quite the opposite because these guys are using the movement to work out whatever issues they clearly have with women.

Nine days after my ex and I got engaged I suddenly worked too much, didn’t spend enough time with him and didn’t clean enough. It was out of the blue. I had a major career-starting project due a month later and all kinds of other things on my plate. He supposedly had ADD and I was trying to make sure there wasn’t a…