Let’s also not forget that often women who kill men are killing their abusers.

According to the FBI, of women who were homicide victims in 2010, 37.5% were killed by romantic partners. That doesn’t mean that a woman is likely to be killed by a man, but those numbers are enough to make most women wary of men in the context of relationships.

The point is, women never know which men are capable of that, often u til its too late. But the percentage of men capable (or, willing) is far higher than women, statistically speaking.

During his confession, O’Kroley told the police “it was easy to kill” Nosal because “she had ruined my life.”

“She had ruined my life.”

Pete Wentz went on Howard Stern and talked about how his wife “wasn’t ready down there” yet for sex but she was still down to pleasure him in other ways.

Same! My favorite is when I’m sick or haven’t slept in days because of thebaby (13 months now) and the other older kids, and he’s all like “oh, I’ll stay up with her don’t worry about her go to sleep, ill see you in the morning” but by 1 am he’s all “I haven’t slept at ALL!” and gets me up. I just want to Fucking slap…

My husband was SO tired from not sleeping well the night I was in labor that he slept like a rock the next night and I had to will my body out of a tall hospital bed over and over to take care of the baby alone. Then he went home to sleep the next night while we were still in the hospital. Eleven months later, he…

What always surprises me is how tired-but-capable my female friends are a day or so post-birth and how their partners always look like hot buttered shit. Like, dude, all you did was lose a little sleep. Sack up.

Yeah I would have stabbed my husband if he was saying that. I slept through my time at the hospital (whooo epidural!) so he watched 3 movies until it was time to push.

My husband’s favorite comment during pregnancy pains/labor pains/post-birth pains/nursing pains was “better you than me.” Always a laugh afterwards.

ETA: He’s my EX-husband for a reason.

My attractive 6’4” brother-in-law felt faint when he saw blood as my SIL was delivering their first child. When he announced it, all the L&D nurses ran from my SIL, who was in ACTIVE LABOR, to help him sit down and get some OJ. He still talks about how they rescued him, because he would have had a big gash on his head…

Mine pulled that. He also pulled the “I had to do the diapers and stuff.” Didn’t matter that I couldn’t walk, was in constant pain after the emergency c-section. I also got to hear after we left, “so, does this mean we can have sex, since your vag didn’t split open?”

My husband left during my 24 hour induced labor to go to the gym and get something to eat. And after I had an emergency c-section and was loopy from pain meds and weepy because my mom was 1,000 miles away, he didn’t sleep on the pull out couch in the room, he went home so he could get a good night’s sleep. I divorced…

my husband’s favorite line concerning the difficulties of childbirth (on the husband) ... “well - i had the HARD PART.”

The amount of drama I got from my husband about his discomfort while going through my three-day induction... motherfucker I didn’t sleep AT ALL and you are complaining about a couch?

My ex DID manage to sleep through most of it. Thank god actually - he sucked. He also took a picture of “down there” while I was pushing and I snatched the camera, deleted the picture and banned him from using it. (Yeah he's a piece of shit - I should have known better)

For real. Not only would I murder the shit out of him, but I’d make sure it hurt the whole time he was dying.

I’d have already murdered him.