God I love this picture so much. White feminists will go to the ends of the earth to defend problematic material that they like. Yet apply their most critical, steadfast and vigilant criticism to other people’s(minority) culture.

Don't listen to the Scott haters, he's actually hilarious. He's always been the best reason to watch that show.

Honestly, Kim is not the person who comes out looking bad in this quote...

“Half anaconda and half great white”

You’re lying to me.

I’m sorry, but I’m from the area. This is wildly inaccurate. It’s a small town with Interstate 80 running right through the middle of it. All around it are a collection of nice communities with lots of churches and good schools and a whole bunch of well-to-do hippies who’ve moved up there to escape the Bay Area. If…

On one hand, I think that The Tenderloin is objectively much more dangerous than the mountains around Colfax. Those guys you met are the type that think that cities are war zones and get that peculiar paranoia that people have about their actually quite safe home.

On the other hand, things could get out of hand pretty…

Agreed. I think the writer had to exaggerate for style ;)

oh honey, no.

Stay strong. I also had a small venue/list and faced some ruffled feathers, but you’re not doing a thing wrong and some people just want to be offended.

Kids aren’t like, appendages. They’re individual people. People can invite the individuals they know and are close to, and not others they’ve never met or barely know. It’s silly to expect people to invite every kid just by virtue of their age. It’s silly to expect people planning a wedding to plan around one’s…

This is every bride’s plight - not the groom’s, no one holds the groom accountable* - and you just have to remember that as long as they aren’t paying, their opinion doesn’t matter. You Do You!

My husband’s cousin put down +7 children!! They weren’t invited at all! That was a super awkward conversation with the cousin’s entire family boycotting because they figured out their kids weren’t invited. That would have been an extra 10 guests to invite all those kids. Hell. No.

Hand-writing “+1 child” takes guts. I can’t believe your cousin did that! You handled the situation perfectly.

So, our Big Public Reason for not inviting kids beyond our two teenage niece (who were sober, and thus, better behaved than most of our friends!) was the expense. Which was legit; if we let every family bring their 2-3 kids...well, the guest list and expense spiraled pretty fucking fast.

People pay for each guest, if you show up with two guests that weren’t invited...it kinds screws with everything, seating, food, etc...

I’m sorry, but I have a kid, and there is no way in hell I would bring him to a wedding. He can’t even sit still for five minutes. I would not expect my child to be invited to any event unless it specifically said children welcome. However, I understand that a lot of people assume weddings are family affairs, so I…

That sounds like an amazing wedding, and I really hope your friends and family calm down and enjoy it for the sweet party it is. For what it’s worth, I’ve heard lots of people say things like “It was really low-key but it turned out to be the most enjoyable wedding I’ve ever been to!” about chilled out park/backyard…

who would invite these THUGS to their wedding? i mean, what an abominable display of white on white crime. and letting a 14 year old minor drink? it just goes to show you that while most white people are respectable, job holding types, there are some who just can’t function in society. sad. #puresarcasm…

This is perfect. Like, damn.