Why don't they just offer their employees a 'modest proposal'...

Yes, YES to everything you said! You're right, polys are the most understanding but if you don't want that for the long term it isn't really a viable option. I was in love with a lesbian who I know loved me, as well but she couldn't handle that I was bisexual and our relationship fell apart because of that. It was…

I think that what she is saying is that once somebody finds out that she is bisexual that they should just take it at face value and accept it and not ask her about it or make her prove it, which does happen quite a lot to bisexuals. That's what she means by mind your own damn business. Not that she wants to stay…

I really wish people wouldn't be so quick to accuse women of saying they're bisexual just for the publicity or just for male attention. It puts sooooooo much pressure on the rest of us to constantly be proving that we're "real bisexuals". Personally, I'd rather my love life be none of your damn business.

Whiteness and white supremacy is an institution. One that you're a part of whether you like it or not. When we talk about "white people" we're talking about the institution of whiteness upon which racism stands.

In the same way people say stuff like "Ugh, banks are thieving scum bags" and it's a given that we're not…

This:

I would add the "almost" never caveat because if this summer between Trayvon and "Stop and Frisk" and the Voting Right's Act and countless other stories in the news and my personal life prove nothing else; it's that big, ugly, overt racism is alive and kicking in America and the world over, but you are correct in that…

Read up on the history of blackface (it takes seconds to do a search that will net you literally millions of results about why it is ALWAYS racist and offensive) and the way that it was and still is used to dehumanize Black people and tell me it's not fucking racist again. I don't give two shits about the intentions…