I’ve been really struggling with my mental health since my Ollie passed away, I miss him so much, he was my everything and I will love him forever, his ashes are back home with me where he belongs. I apologise for the rant that I’m about to write.

Today I learned some geography as well as what a Skepta is. 

I’m just waiting for the day when I mention to a young person “When I was shopping in a mall once...” and they interrupt me with “whats a mall?” Its coming, its coming.

I promise that this will be the last time I go about shamelessly posting selfies, but tonight is my first time going out as my true self (my beautiful self!) and with my friends’ help I managed to do my makeup all by myself! I know it’s not perfect but I think I did a decent job. I’m actually mostly posting to thank…

My uterus is full of IUD and loving it. But I hope your uterus is safely, and healthily sans baby over the weekend.

FWIW, 34 is young and you can absolutely find a partner that doesn’t have a kid at that age. Don’t compromise on something that important.

I have so many questions.

I think I see my 6yr old grandfather's Christmas present. Thank you!

I’m an anomaly; I have RBF, but strangers seem to talk to me a lot in places like grocery stores, etc.  

I had always been under the impression that RBF increased the “smile, honey!” frequency. I generally get congratulatory comments on looking somewhat happy and friendly by default.  (Not from people I know.)

WTF?!

I’ll be honest, if I was a woman I would still insist on a condom and my own birth control even if this was on the market. I have a very low opinion of my gender’s emotional investment in taking responsibility for unwanted pregnancies.

I feel for you. I experienced this after being told by my doctor my gut issues were probably celiac (they weren’t) and to go gluten free. I became so wary of contamination and getting sick (because I did get sensitized to gluten and would get sick) that I’d go a day or two without eating sometimes. When I did eat it…

In the US today, most people either have to work multiple part-time or gig jobs to make ends meet, or work office/corp jobs that pay ~well but are incredibly greedy for your time. I am of the corporate wasteland time-greed variety. My typical day is 6-9 hours of meetings, and then they expect 2-4 hours of additional…

Generally, multivitamins don’t help very much, but in cases of extreme malnutrition like this one, it probably might have done something...

Can’t really bitch about my job.

Zoloft and a new tattoo

I made it!

Even then, I’m surprised any relationship lasts 2 weeks let alone months long before they realise...

Tell me about it. I was a normal looking 41-year-old in 2016. Just three years later and now I look like a 44-year-old Wilford Brimley.