I'm so going to try that this weekend! Thanks!

Sales are bananas right now, and Rent the Runway is your friend. For what it's worth, I wore red to a very formal wedding once, but I am married and was always with my husband. I did get some rather lascivious looks though - crazy, right?

I agree with kristinkle123, save it for the first date - you wouldn't want other females to view you as some predatory single woman out to get her hooks on their man!

I say no red to the wedding - it's aggressive. My advice is to wear something really, really pretty to the wedding (read: you could introduce me to your mom and your female friends won't hate me, but I'm still the hottest chick in this joint), and save the red dress for the first date.

I say wear the red.

Me, too. I'm actually more physically fit than I was in my twenties, but man, every mirror is a reminder of that Catherine Deneuve quote about a woman of a certain age having to choose between her face and her ass.

Big Bold Statement all the way! The only rule is not toooo much cleavage—don't wanna outshine the bride, after all.

This is probably it. I still gauge my looks based on how I looked at 27 when I was at my thinnest and fittest, but still had plump 20s cheeks and glowing skin. Now I gotta work for that shit! But I feel pretty good about myself, in general.

I look fantastic in red. Love wearing it.

Baggier= better for me. But outlet, you say? I need to check this.

So I'mma funeral director type person. Had to work a graveside service (not even as the FD; as a damn helper because we were short staffed) in Georgia in July in a black fucking suit and black fucking tights and sensible black fucking shoes and my hair in a sensible gotdamn sock bun and after the service I am a…

It's nice to hear that Hailie Mathers seems to be doing well and living a pretty normal life. She definitely could have gone a MUCH different route and be all over the tabloids. Eminem always struck me as a present, attentive parent — a far cry from the Kris Jenners of the world.

Madonna, you don't have to try so hard. You're Madonna! You don't have to try at all!

"Three of them public figures."

As numerous people have pointed out, this same ew factor doesn't appear to pop up when it's, say, Steven Tyler dating, or Clint Eastwood, or Harrison Ford, or Alec Baldwin, or Bruce Willis, or Billy Joel, etc., etc. The list could literally go on and on. That said, it is my opinion that ANY woman who is disgusted by…

yeah, as a 24 year old guy, I find sex with 40+ woman is far better than girls my age. Most girls around my age are very bad at sex.

I always feel that in situations like this (a large age gap in a relationship), if it's a man dating a woman 25 years his junior, he gets a nudge and a wink and "You're the MAN", but when it's a woman dating a guy 25 years her junior, people say there must be something wrong here... or that she's a cougar and sadly…

Yeah, well that is kind of my point—the fact that in our society you have to "suffer a little" to look "as hot as possible". I would definitely argue your idea of 'hot as possible' is heavily influenced by a society that polices women's bodies and advertisement that takes full advantage of any self-consciousness.

I refuse to give up my feminist card just because I love my spanx. I'm a confident fattie, but sometimes I like to wear a sexy dress and have it look smooth as shit and keep my thighs from rubbing together to the point of starting a fire.

I would totally buy the lower-cut version. I'm guessing they wouldn't sag at the knees or butt after you wear them more than once, which is what I really look for in a more expensive jean.