Say what you will about NYC but I don’t think anyone could accuse us of being politically correct with a straight face. We are the city where ‘fuck you’ can be a compliment.

Agree on Jess. He was such a punky little shit. That being said, he is a very healthy looking young man now.

I have pantsfeelings for Logan but Dean reigns surpreme in my heart. He was the cutest and basically a dream boyfriend. Logan has a Mr. Big thing happening by learning on his money too much and it doesn’t make him less hot but it turns me off on a deeper level. Jess was a little shit when he was a kid. I don’t…

I ran an huge event last year and my nice work clothes did not have pockets (as usual) so I kept my phone in my bra and would try to surreptitiously retrieve it but busier I got the less I would think about it. And I by day 3, I definitely did it in front of one client who tried to pretend he hadn’t seen but couldn’t…

a_blackpanther is right. And she’s triply right about formal clothes. Maybe one out of 50 formal dresses would have pockets and then it would be all about pockets as a statement.

Totally agree. Pockets quite rare on women’s clothes unless you are wearing a very traditional jacket with a pants suit. And even if you went that route, you’d have maybe a pocket at each hip. There’s no equivalent to pocket squares and inner jacket pockets the way men’s suits do.

Bad pet owner though. He was the guy who put the dog in a crate on top of the car on the way to a family vacation.

I don’t remember that part, but for me his is the literal embodiment of the word ‘louche’. My favorite James Spader movie is ‘White Palace’ with Susan Sarandon. If you haven’t seen it, you have a treat ahead of you—it’s super hot. Vulnerable, sexy, troubled, deviant James Spader is my favorite James Spader.

This is a mean thing to say, but stuff like this is why I’m grateful that humanity has a built in feature to make sure old ideas do not hang around forever: people get old and die. In the not too distant future, Tony Bennett, Donald Trump, Dick Cheney, the Breitbart guy, and all of the rest of these old white men…

1980s James Spader. Sigh.

He was the reason baby Palliser knew she was straight.

I saw him once about 10 years ago from a bus across the street. He was literally the best looking man I have ever seen.

This is really fascinating. Thank you!

Same, I would rather just earn chocolate.

How about adopting dog or volunteering at an animal shelter taking doggies for walks? That will help you be a bit safer, give you some great companionship and I think improve your spirits. Hang in there!

Interesting analysis! Can your describe what you mean about mirror images in a bit more detail?

It’s a really handy way to sort out who you are dealing with. I’ve done it with my guy friends admit well as dates. One nice thing is that Trump supporters just can’t wait to tell you how they voted so it is not hard to get an answer. Thank goodness for the block and unmatch features!

I just came back from an eating and drinking our feelings dinner which included garlic bread and fondu. Desperate times...

This article helped me understand what happened in a way that helped me empathize: http://www.cracked.com/blog/6-reasons-trumps-rise-that-no-one-talks-about/ It won’t help all those people who are terrified but at least it’s something.

This is one of my comfort songs: