I never do more then rinse them off and rub off some of the dirt. What the hell are people doing to potatoes I wonder. Also how many potatoes could most people need to wash…

Yay because white people had no hand in fucking up Africa or South America! None at all, ever, the end.

Interesting point. I guess my thing is that there are so many more dimensions to intimate relationships that things that seem very black and white to an outside observer is often a lot more nuanced or messy. I think if it's a couple that I know, it's easy to vilify someone as clearly the bad person and the victim but…

Selfish yes. Neither of them seemed to care about their primary relationships.

I agree that it is reasonable to feel bad for the cheatee…especially when the cheating relationship is kind of romanticized in print. The cheating part was a footnote in my reading, it's interesting that some people can't get past anything involving cheating.

This is kind of neither here nor there, but I don't get why anyone cares if someone cheats on some other person. Its not your relationship, why does it bother you? For instance, so many people are soooo very judgmental about this Broadwell lady in the Petraeus affair but why?

wow...i would like pigs one day.

Totally :) Punching people in the face has consequences which is why more people don't do it.

Sure!

I think you misunderstand the point of the first amendment. You can't be jailed for racist epithets, you can be punched in the face. The right to free speech protects you from the government, not the people you're insulting.

This is so awesome. i wish there were consequences for all the racist Republicans spewing crazy racist vitriol all over the Internet. People have no shame. It used to be that anonymity helped people say whatever crazy thing popped into their head but now they do it with their real names and linking to their FB pages.…

yeah but i don't believe in god — especially that one — so...philosophically whatever craziness you think comes from it doesn't apply to me.

Yeah it's cool…the minuscule percent of the population which is gay has anointed this person their spokesperson and say they've got this. NBD…all the straight people can fuck off with their "support."

So…what exactly are you doing to fight for your own rights? You know besides complaining anonymously about people who support your own cause?

Exactly! So very many nutjobs in relationships.

I definitely enjoyed the article...I need to hear that, there's no miracle answer and online dating coaches are from hell.

yeah it's never single people who say the magical solution is to just learn to love yourself and love being single and stop looking and whatever.

Um yeah...it's disgusting that people squee over overly-small dogs. They can have physical problems like their skull being too small for their brain and their mouths don't fit all their teeth. As well many breeders of "tea cup" breeds starve puppies to stunt their growth or starve the mothers to have small puppies.

Yeah...one of my cousins is uneducated, not um...not smart ok, I'm sorry...she's not. And is also poor, married to an immigrant — on disability no less...sweetest woman yet is politically conservative because of religion. Truly baffling.

It took me two years to do one...totally worth it though. I'm nowhere near 10 percent body fat as well, sub 20 percent, but it was really just learning how to do them and getting past sticking points by getting stronger.