Nah, you just want to rape women & not get called on it, which is the end-game of lying about what women actually want.

The “exact and precise definition” is important to “particular guys” because they want to narrow it to what they have not done. I think you actually get that, based on your last sentence.

This is the heart of the piece for me:

“To me, when you use the word rape, you’re talking about violent, throwing them down—it’s like one of the most violent crimes in the world. You can’t throw the word rape around. It’s like throwing the word ‘racist’ around. It doesn’t apply to everything people use it for.”

I only just realized: my parents never did either. But, then again, I think they were afraid I would tell them.

No one should “respect” anyone who is clearly NOT doing his/her job correctly. & this teacher absolutely was not. As for the rest, I second what “Robo Trumble” said; you aren’t fooling anyone.

Thast’s the kid’s name. “King Jordan”

EXACTLY

Well, ince YOU used the term, YOU “assumed the teacher must be female”, so your confession is noted.

Thank you for saving me the trouble of typing up a response. Mine was going to be something along these lines, but less polite.

I have to echo everyone else: it’s just you, there was nothing in her remarks like what you are saying.

Yeah, I pity the guys who are buying these- but breathe a sigh of relief for all the women they know - & the children they won’t be having.

The irony of you accusing anyone else of “diversion...without actually addressing anything” is only slightly lower than you acting as if you had made a “cohesive” point. Nice try at trying to paint me as a racist, though - makes a pretty decent deflection for your misogyny. Just not effective enough.

Yep. Note all of the sexual assaults that happen, en masse, at beaches - especially the nude ones? No? Really?

IOW, women’s bodies are just things to be negotiated over & “gotten” like all those things you just mentioned? I think you know what you can do with that. Sideways.

Not buying it

YES! “intentionally flooding your brain”. And THAT’s why she felt confused & couldn’t make the decision to get up & leave!

That was a TV show. Who do you think wrote that TV show, men or women? Where do you think men in general get the idea to just keep going when a woman says “no”, because she will always say “yes in the end”...? The nuance is not what’s thick in that case.

OMG THIS! A BILLION TIMES THIS! EVERY SINGLE WORD! THIIIIIISSSS!!!!!

I’m thinking it’s that way. I had gotten out of gray awhile back, then something changed & I went back in. [shrug]

Well, it is sexist in that society demands/expects for women to be better than men & so a woman was used as the biggest villain for shock value. If the roles were reversed - a white man & black women - we’d’ve been suspicious from the start.