What - no attempt to warn his wife???

Don’t be too sure. I never had therapy after being gaslighted; I just found the right partner: voila, no more trust issues.

Thank you - I was thinking the same thing, but it took me until the very last update to twig to it.

Yep, MY gaslighter went back to the ex who had gotten dumped for me (I was told “Oh, no, it’s really not serious!” But,of course, it was) - & the EX TOOK BACK THE DUMPER! And I think theyare still married, 25 years later. The socipath most likely realized that this one was a perfect patsy.

Am I crazy for bginning to think this is all a troll from HER?

Of course, he ALREADY has a story ready for his wife about “this crazy ex who won’t let go”.

Yeah, once he “admitted” to “being engaged”, all his other lies must have been obvious. And I say this as someone who has been gaslighted, myself. I was willing to cut her some slack, given the extensive scenario he was so readily able to spill out to her. Right up until then.

Also not your fault, because we all know there are jerks out there who are seriously like that.

It’s not your fault: you were trying to parody people who are exactly like that.

Oh, please! PETA will kill him THEMSELVES, to “liberate” him frim being “subjugated” as a pet!

I keep wondering why no one has the option to take him home!?

Oh, wow, just thought of a totally new angle: maybe she did it because of the kids? Betcha she will end up saying this at one point. “I rejected my parents & brother so much, & had these black kids to care for...”

I actually assumed that’s what you were doing, if only because of the venue.

Yeah, my sociopath at 19 was a lot more subtle than this one was. Sigh.

Then there’s TWO Alexander Kozaks in Iowa who are mall security guards...

Of course she is. He would deliberately pick a docile, pleasing “little woman”.

I am lucky that the only harassment I got for turning down a second date with someone (who I had turned down a date with before he did me a favor - mistakenly leading me to believe that he was NOT a jerk) was a few months of phone calls & THEN lies behind my back to all our mutual friends about “how boring” I was.…

I hope her family sues the company, too. He should have been fired long before this.

Your gender has everything to do with it & insisting it doesn’t is pretty much the reason you;re not getting it.

Decent people get annoyed at the high rate of violence that plenty of men perpetrate on even more women & even more annoyed that MRA-holes like to pretend that the amount is “statistically low” & therefore should not be complained about as much as it is - never mind that it’s not nearly as much as it DESERVES.