I understand the point you are making, but I wonder if there is some more subtle message that society sends that is more powerful. My parents are pretty conservative and basically never brought up any conversation on the whole sex/relationships/wateverelsegoeswithit, so the issue of discussing what was and wasnt right…

Lack of consent and lack of enthusiasm are different things. I suppose they are not entirely orthogonal concepts, but they are not two points on a continuum.

That is because clearly unenthusiastic sex is not rape. Rape is sex without consent, or with someone incapable of consent. Consent and a lack of enthusiasm are not mutually exclusive.

• Have you ever had sex with your partner when you knew she didn't want to but you thought she should agree because she's your wife/ partner?
  
  Does this question seem troublesome to anyone else? I know I've had sex when i didn't want to but agreed to because of some feelings involved or some such.. It feels a little…

whoops. guess i'd better get around to using that gender neutral pronoun. =P

im not trying to be glib, but i think the point he is trying to make is that, while these are constraints we currently deal with, we should continue trying to design a better net.

wow. i am sorry. =[

HAHAHA. omg.. i did not know nipple hair was a thing that happened. although.. i suppose it should not be surprising. I have chest hair afterall. but yea.. so much respect. I grumble so much when my mother visits or sister wants to go out and it messes up my once in 2 weeks shaving schedule. lol. It never occurred to…

well yes. its not nice to have people criticise or shame you for your health decisions. but this is not that. she is being praised for a positive outcome that she targetted and achieved that many have found to be a tough hurdle.

lol. fatty.

Oh My God. Never again will I complain about having to shave or get a haircut because my family wants me to look presentable at something. lol..

lol.. how did you manage to derive that.. explain please?

lulz.. dont think the AZNs care to be clubbed in to be honest.. =P

well seeing as how i dont see any comment mention that here, perhaps you should update your notions of the commentariat.

as did my parents, and theirs.. im pretty sure we've been doing it for a couple thousand years or so

aahhh.. seeing Bill Crosby's face just makes me feel good. like warm inside. =] does he have grandkids? i bet he is an awesome grandfather to have.

lulz.. america. i grew up eating yogurt at the end of every meal.

aaaahhhhh.. whenever someone says 'vagine' i think of tagine. and get hungry. =[ its 11pm and i only have tater tots and OJ in the fridge.

no. also.. "NorCal" has a name. its called the Bay Area.. or simply the Bay. =P we are uppity like that. lol

I'd buy them some birth control