I'm sorry that happened to you, and also that something similar has probably happened to most women. The irony, that when you turn down sex with a total stranger, men call you a whore. :/
I'm sorry that happened to you, and also that something similar has probably happened to most women. The irony, that when you turn down sex with a total stranger, men call you a whore. :/
I am a girl that has "never seen a penis", never felt wanted, felt invisible and unwanted my whole life. I am in my 20s too.
What is your fixation on sex? Is that the only interaction you can imagine with women?
Hi. Maybe you're a nice guy, underneath the narcissism and immaturity. Get a job. Do some volunteer work. Find a hobby that you enjoy that puts you in contact with women. With time you'll see that you are not the center of the universe, that other people don't exist for your sake and if they're not paying attention to…
Okay, good troll, but I'll bite anyway: "Making him feel invisible and unwanted." A lot of us feel this way. It stinks. Our society is very atomized and competitive, and often superficial and mean. Feeling lonely is one thing. I have been there, and I have nothing but the deepest sympathy.
Yeah but the thing is, a woman has a right to do what makes her feel safe. It's not her obligation to take a chance on a guy that gives her a bad vibe just so he doesn't feel unwanted.
You're talking about language... that's not the issue. There is no birth right to sex, relationships, friendship, whatever the fuck he wanted. None. Period. It's obvious his rage came from a place of entitlement, "supreme gentleman"?
Creep shaming, Jesus. Stop being fucking creepy and you'll have nothing to be ashamed of. See how that works?
Here's the thing, if you changed your approach you'd get so much further in educating "clueless feminists". You could have offered insight into what might drive someone to this point, without painting yourself into the corner of being perceived as an asshole. Also, If you rephrased:
So instead of being patient, or sucking it up, or trying to learn new social skills, women should drop to their knees to suck men's dicks, even if they don't want to, just because men want it. That's not how it works.
And don't call women "females".
Plenty of women feel invisible and unwanted by men too. Most people don't want to be lonely and not have anyone to have sex with.
That doesn't mean that anyone is obligated to have sex with anyone else.
I know, I was like.. Creep shaming? really? And then I palmed a thousand faces.
There is a UNIVERSE of difference between being shy and being so creepy that you end up coming off as a potential fucking murderer.
I tend to date shy and reserved men. I see no correlation between shy/outgoing personality traits and respect toward women. I also didn't use the word creep, that's your word. My point was that if I feel threatened by someone, uneasy around them, or generally not respected by them, odds are I won't fuck them. Same…
but making him feel invisible and unwanted for his entire life might drive him over the edge.
Creep shaming? That's a fucking joke, right?
Dear wizards, You don't need cars, money, height or looks to attract women. All you really need is to not give us a feeling that you might secretly want to rape and kill us. Bonus points if you don't call us a whore.
Potato skin binge all weekend. For feminism....yeah feminism. It'll be a sacrifice that I'm willing to make.
The teenager that still lives me says "no-they were angry at petty adult b.s. that wastes their time (like most of high school)"-and my adult self who has taught h.s agrees.
"I'm 70% confident that the only reason the school is enforcing these rules now is because they want to remind the students that school is still in session..."