I know how you feel! Those stores can be overwhelming. My best advice: start simple. Most women are most able to have and most comfortable from the get go with clitoral orgasms, so a simple wand vibrator will do. Doesn't go inside you, doesn't have torque and spin cycle or anything weird... it's just like a 6 in…

Yeah, okay, so what? That's actually kinda cool in that it's a representation of human empathy in action! I have had the world's shittiest last two weeks, and posting that it was tough (once) on Facebook actually really helped. I find, generally speaking, people want to lift you up in bad moments (at least my FB…

My child having autism or not, I would consider myself a complete failure as a parent if he were posting rape threats online. Therapy and a revocation of internet privileges is a good place to start, Mom and Dad, not blind defense of his behavior (taking this at face value, of course...grains of salt probably do need…

Never said it was. Her piece just reads a bit apathetic about sexuality and sensuality so I wondered if she had experienced her own sexuality independent of another. I think a lot of women are raised to think of sex as something they do for another rather than for themselves with another. Just have met waaaaaay too…

Seriously. What the actual fuck? Some folks here are giving her a hall pass like: she didn't know and it's hard to come to grips with this and poor lady and blah blah blah. I am sorry but no rational human being would think that a grown man having 'naked soap battles' with young boys is acceptable. Not even in…

I meant in the context of heterosexual relationships, as she speaks of her boyfriend and when she is referring to "virginity" in this piece she explicitly means the societal definition of penis into vagina. Clearly virginity is different in homosexual relationships, and as I have no experience with that, I cannot…

Exactly! I started masturbating a full decade before sex (12—>22) and 4 years before I even kissed a boy. It made my first sexual relationship really awesome and fulfilling for both of us. I am a big proponent of masturbation and have brought 3 adult friends to sex stores after learning they've never had an orgasm.…

I think pussy is a hot word and use it in sexting. But frankly, sexting is hottest (and my partners tend to concur) when a little more oblique than literal... kinda "I want you deep inside me" rather than "fuck me with that big cock." Although time and place for everything... :)

Serious question... have you masturbated? Have you learned your own body, what makes it feel good, which spots like to be touched? Nothing at all wrong with you if you haven't! For many women that takes time. But I'd start there, if I were you. Read some erotica, watch some steamy movies, touch yourself, see what you…

Did this headline really need to be in 100 point font on the main page? <shudder> Also, crotch is such an awful word....

I can't even process this information. I still held out hope that one day I have his voice on my home answering system. Sigh.

Nail hit on the head in the second sentence: zero sum. It's amazing how many people believe that everything in life is zero sum—- if you have it, then I can't have it; if I have it, none for you. I mean, most things don't work like that! In most ways life is pretty much Oprah— and YOU get love, career and a family!…

How is Princeton not filing a cease-and-desist against this woman using its name in her vile propaganda?

Oh that made me laugh so hard. Thanks.

Yeah, a little bummed People.com earned a click on that ridiculously stupid article about a barely noticeable haircut. I'm up for leaving work early as a result... or, you know, just because. :)

Me too! LOVED the kiss with Danny—- they have spectacular chemistry. Fun!

Season 3 is sublime too. So many callback jokes. Brad and Jane are about my favorite (comedy) characters on TV ever.

Oh, SO co-signed. I found it almost completely unusable and after months of struggle with a touch-screen ASUS running Windows 8, I gave up, gave it away and am living blissfully with my Macbook Air.

Oh man, thank you so much for a gif from one of my all-time favorite shows. I miss that crazy crew. #happyendingsrocked