You are with the one person who knows you best and will always be there - YOU. I bet she is funny and you two will find amusement at the same things. I bet she will always want to watch the same show and never complain if you pause it to get a snack. Give her a chance and see if you can find some common ground. Lonely…

I was sad and lonely growing up. He made me want to live. I miss him now and had to turn the video off because I still cry that he is gone. You are a beautiful person.

Can I get back to you with a complete answer? Right now I am hip deep in making mashed potatoes and it is not going well.

It is dry, and patchy. Thank you for any help.

Dry and I’m 43 so it is dire. Thank you for any advice.

I used to try to keep myself looking nice. It has been years and I find I am so out of the loop that I am afraid to even try. This includes everything - no basic skin care, no make up - nothing. I would like to get back into feeling better about myself but everything intimidates me to the point that I have no idea…

Your reply and thoughts are valid. When I see younger women do it I also feel embarrassed for them. It still comes across as desperate but they have yet to learn that sexy isn’t just sucking your thumb - it is so much more. It is in the way you move, the way you carry yourself, exuding your inner power without needing…

I am so embarrassed for Madonna and even more for her son. Please. It isn’t ageism. It is that you just look the fool.

Ok. I have no dogs in the pony show. I was just advocating for two people to have agency over themselves in the same way I advocate it for all.

For all of the people that feel this is not natural or “yucky”, I ask you to consider the fact that those feelings are based on how YOU feel without taking into consideration this has nothing to do with you. All marriages are not about sex or passion, many aren’t even about love - you know, arranged marriages. Would I…

That movie had the working title of Dancing about Archetecture but they changed it because they felt it wouldn’t draw people in. I liked it. I own it. I feel no shame.

Gillian looks like she is taking Meg out of there in that way that says “Trust me. Let’s get you home before things go bad.” I love this.

The photo was set up to direct attention to the middle. There was a height disparity and they used that for effect.

I thought she was going to star on

They really have no value other than being cute. Maybe look at getting new Momma either a prenatal massage or postnatal. Many of the gifts are for the baby alone whereas a massage will benefit both of them.

I needed to hear the clothing advice. I have been putting it off but I know if I felt more comfortable in my clothing I would feel better out of it. I don’t have lots of money but enough to buy some things that don’t leave me looking like I have been in restraints all day long. Thank you.

Tsum Tsums. Disney, cute and innocuous.

You have NO idea how much this post means to me. I felt like I was crazy for my feelings. Just knowing you are in my boat makes me feel better about this journey. Thank you so much for responding. Deep breath...

Body image question... I am 43 and have always been small. I’m 5'4" so not just weight but height. In October I was sick and it messed with my metabolism and upon getting better I gained 20 pounds in a month. Since I am not tall it is pretty pronounced. I know bodies change and that it is possible to lose the weight…

It could be her attempt to “rebel” against growing up in a family that chose all “J” names in leu of just being called 1,2,3,4 ... 579. But you know she can’t just get too crazy so it has to stay within their lunatic belief system.