If your man prefers your body type then as his sexual partner you have a "responsibility" to maintain it. If you did start losing weight or firming up your muscles he might lose interest. If you changed your habits and focus to become a health nut your personality and motivations in life would change and secondarily…

Thank you so much for the link!

If it's the "why come" that is making you twitchy it's a phrase used in the movie Idiocracy. There are many, many, funny moments and turns of phrase to show how stupid and crass we have become and why come is in my top ten. The doctor played by Justin Long uses it. Is that why come you we're upset?

It's honestly not bullshit!