LyraYlliel
LyraYlliel
LyraYlliel

I was raped, two nights in a row (by the same person). I didn't leave because it was my place. I didn't kick him out because of most of the things that have been mentioned above: I was in denial, I didn't want to start a scene, I didn't want to disappoint my mom by "being a rape victim", I didn't want to feel like I

Have you seen the video by Laci Green (I believe that's her name, I had never heard of her before)? She says that other girls have also come forward with allegiations of assault (maybe rape as well, not sure at the moment).

Do you have any idea how much society 1. teaches women to be quiet and accomodating, 2. teaches rape victims that no one will ever believe them and that they'd better be the perfect victim if they want to avoid further abuse and 3. spreads confusing messages as to what constitutes rape and what is just "normal

I'd say they don't get a say in abortion either way. The punishment for not being able to label the diagram would be no sex, if you ask me.

It just weirds me out, this focus on the gender of the person they're scared of being "replaced" with. Just like it weirds me out that a lot of guys would have less problems with their girlfriends cheating on them with a woman than with a man. I just don't get it. Leaving someone is leaving someone and cheating on

Reminds me of an ex who made me promise when we broke up to not start a relationship with a woman after him - or at least, not directly after him, because it would hurt his ego...

GIVE ME THIS SUSHI I NEED IT IT LOOKS WAAAY TOO GOOD

I'd say it tastes like pain and forcefeeding, but then again, I'm a vegetarian and animal rights are a big deal to me.

'most people', huh? Quite some men won't even do it, you know?

Yes, exactly.

Even then disguising it as an allergy seems kind of weird to me, though - it may be the reason for her dislike, but then why didn't she just say so?

Ooh, thank you. The seeds I can eat.

Oh god thank you! I can't stand it either but until now, I didn't know the English word (it's called "koriander" in my mother tongue, so no way to deduce it) and I never knew how to ask for it abroad. Now I can safely go back to Thailand and enjoy all the delicious food without the vile taste of dish soap. Thanks!

What I'm wondering is how it would work out if you're substituting two or three items for one - would you need to pay extra then?

As someone who chose being raped over nude images being posted on the internet (he let me "choose", for what it was worth, so I didn't struggle), I would say that while they may not technically be raping them, it sure is disgusting and I wouldn't mind seeing it punished.

If you have that little self-control, how about you just abstain from human interaction, or find a shrink...

I was "only threatened" with it, but even the fear that brought me kind of makes me want to slap some sense into all the people who claim it's not hurtful - or worse, don't care, like you said. Humanity is gross and hopeless right now. :/

I call this sexual abuse.

Me too. It says sooo much about how they view women - not as actresses, artists, whatever, but as bodies. I doubt they'd say the same about men...

Many rapes by men are not reported either. Rape in general is underreported. Your point is...?