I just realized where the crux of my James hate lies. He reminds me of Trump:

Also, the words that come out of her mouth literally make no sense half the time and are unrelated to what anyone is talking about. She is for real painful to watch 

I agree that she’s anxious, but I still maintain that she’s dumb. It’s not just evident in her slow talking; it’s in the way she listens to people. She maintains eye contact but shows no register of emotion or reaction or... anything. Sorry to use a cliche, but she just LOOKS (and looks at the world) like there’s…

I said in another comment that I think it’s hypocritical and gross that the women on this show (and men, FWIW) talk down to her like they don’t pull the same idiotic shit she does. Just because they’re in their early 30s doesn’t mean they’ve grown out of the terrible relationship behavior that someone as young as…

I don’t usually feel bad for Raquel b/c look at who she’s with, but the screamers were rude AF to her last night. She’s not malicious and has never done anything to any of them. Literally ever critique is coming from a glass house or a refusal to provide her even a basic level of respect.

I actually don’t think she’s that dumb. I think she’s just anxious and talks slowly. Certainly she’s no dumber than Brittany and Jax, who constantly have to ask producers what words mean during their talking heads. 

1. Lala is a horrible human being. We have all lost a parent at one time or another and we don’t take it out on others. She is full of shit and you know she is only with Randall because he puts her in his movies. Sorry there is no way that girl loves him for him. Daddy issues much.

I didn’t watch this episode (and also started my own thread above about hating Raquel because she’s dumb) so this comment might not count buuuut:

personally I thought how everyone treated Raquel was disgusting. Even if she’s not bright, or important to the story line. She seemed far more composed and mature than anyone on that stage. Yes, she seems to have a higher value of self (I am a beauty queen!?) with no self awareness... but, so does everyone else on…

I spoke in tongues at a weird non-denominational church service that my mom (a liberal Methodist) didn’t want me to attend. I was crushing on this evangelical pastor’s son, and my friend who was dating his brother invited me to attend services with her. I’d never seen a rock band in church before, or people jumping…

When I was in high school, I got pretty close to this guy Aaron*. We went on a band trip together and talked a lot. Then we had a class, and I got to know him better. He’d even talked about us going to prom together. I thought we were close but probably not.

When I was a sophomore in college my university paid for this company that did mobile std testing to come park their gigantic trailer on campus. I was hanging out after lunch with a big group of people that included my crush (he and I were just acquaintances), and as people gradually left it was eventually just me and…

I most definitely snorted a Pixy Stick during an assembly in fourth grade. I don’t recall the subject, but a bunch of us were sitting on the gym floor watching a movie and the lights were out. I was hanging with my bestie and the two boys we liked when one pulled out some Pixy Stix and dared us to try snorting one. Of…

You know, I’ve shared a lot of embarrassing and ridiculous stories on this website over the last decade, but I can’t share this one. It’s so bad, I’m taking it to my grave.

God this is so cringy. I was 19 and needed to look super, extra hot and sexy and attractive for my new bf, so after reading one incredibly dumb article in Cosmo, I followed their advice to shave - ummm, his initial - uh - down there. I spent a good twenty minutes perfecting it in the mirror and felt super sexy and…

The most ridiculous thing I did to impress a crush was pretend to really like Atlas Shrugged and Ayn Rand because the guy was THAT guy you knew as a teenager. I was 17, horny, and stuck at sleep away camp.

Imagine if they got that passionate about the over 2k actual verses in the Bible about helping the poor and the sick over yourself to the point its unreadable if you take them out vs the zero that mention abortion is a sin.

Or about sex education and contraception, which can help prevent the abortions that they hate so much.

What!??!!

Or the myriad other things that also affect the lives of babies and children they claim to care so much about, like parental leave, subsidized childcare, high-quality pre-K, and equitable access to a good education. I could go on forever.