THIS guy is approved to comment?!

Here is Moxie, with a new and not-yet-stinky rope bone. She was named, in part, after the Moxie soda mentioned in the pod.... I was trying to come up with a clever name for a brown dog. Hershey felt to common and masculine, and Coke or Pepsi would have been weird. Moxie is both feminine and matches my girl’s…

My Newfie Mabel waiting to go for a ride.

My grandmother from Lithuania made a concoction called viritas with:

Wow.

Also, having evidence of the affair will help a lot in the divorce.

Seriously. If marriage is something you want, then telling yourself “I shouldn’t want this”isn’t going to magically make you not want it. If she’s unhappy about it now, she’ll be unhappy about it later.

All of this. PLUS, she’s not that happy, or she wouldn’t have written the letter. Non - commitment isn’t enough for her to feel happy and secure and for a lot of people that is normal. She shouldn’t fight her instincts. Break up and get back in the dating game. The 40s are a sweet spot for divorced men—she can find…

If it was an open relationship, then he wouldn’t have been so secretive about it.

I disagree in part to the answer to Knuckles Deep: If she’s enjoying herself, then yeah, marriage might not be the endgame. But if that’s where she would like to be headed, and he won’t acknowledge that and affirm it, he’s not really “all in” on their relationship. He’s not saying, “I see your point but I don’t really…

I kind of feel like “I met his mother” got glossed over here. What’s THAT story?

Absolutely 100% tell the wife. Is this advice even serious?

I can’t think of other situations in which you are allowed to blow up another person’s marriage, but I’m sure our commenters can come up with some.

No. No you do not blow up a marriage that you are not a partner in, ever, unless someone is being physically or mentally abused.

Am I wrong in kinda wanting the girl who used to date A-Hole to absolutely nuke his marriage? I mean, how else will he learn anything??

If I were mrs hole I would want to know. Better to know before having more kids/spending more time with him.

I disgree with not telling the wife. Mainly because if he’s cheating on her with letter writer - who is to say he is not cheating on her with someone else? My advice to letter writer would be inform Mrs. Hole and also, get yourself tested. He’s introducing elements into their relationship without her consent and she…

Yes, I have. I am not and have never been a Jennifer Lopez fan and was among the group of fans who were disappointed in her casting, but overall I think it’s a very well done movie; even if you weren’t a fan or had any idea who Selena y Los Dinos were, you can still enjoy and become overwhelmed with emotion over the…

San Antonio native here, it’s so strange watching this video. Bittersweet for sure and my sister will probably weep after I share this video with her. I still remember how devastated she was the day Selena was shot. She came home from school crying and yelling.

Oh man. So bittersweet to see this.