Kittys
Kittys
Kittys

I have the same problem! I never ever pay enough attention to myself. This is lame, but I've started to schedule time for me. Like, turn off my phone and just have an hour to myself. Friday nights are a "no one bother me" zone. I just have some wine and sing along to music. Lame-o, but so refreshing!

You're not the bad person here. Cat-nap that kitty and get him out of harm's way. Fuck those people, srsly.

I don't have any concrete advice, but I just wanted to tell you that it's amazing how you've taken control of your life, or as much control as you can right now. Are there any state programs that might help with extra money for you? Food banks? Women's shelters/programs that you can get clothing if you need it for

Oh my gosh how scary!! My pets are family to me, I can't imagine how awful you must be feeling. My dumb cat's favourite past time is chewing plastic...one day I'll be calling the emergency vet, I'm sure.

Crushing! But then, I was young and I everything felt crushing at that age, haha.

In my experience, I've had to just cut ties off. Not immediately but just gradually close off the friendship. Unfortunately (in my case) that was really the only way I was ever going to move on.

I was shouting this at my TV! Haha.

Hooooolyyyyyyyyyyy shiiiiiiiiiiiiit. *fans self*

Isn't it amazing how women are scared of men? It's like, my favorite thing ever.

More like every night! *clink*

Nicotine and red wine, no contest.

Damn girl! Your story is awesome. Congrats!

I looked it up too... The wiki article seems to speak quite favorably about covenant marriage. Hm.

Haha, fair enough!

I don't know, my job affects way less people and I have to take 20 hours of training courses per year with mandatory ethics courses to renew my professional designation license.

Lol! Oh dear. You got me. I was a Classical Civ minor in university. I'm so embarrassed about that typo!

I think this qualifies for xenophobia, rather than classicism...but what do I know.

Awww boo.

Haha gross. I had a person order 12 sugars in a medium coffee once. TWELVE. I also had a guy who wanted strawberry cream cheese on everything bagels all the time. *shudder*