Thanks for giving a name to that feeling!

Will Kesha and her mom demand the publishing for the identical songs put out by her peers from the Dr Luke factory? I'm sure the sex and drugs stuff is true. It's important the story come out and break down the facade of powerful young women who are "totally in control" of their music and image. It's not helpful to…

An incredibly giant penis was definitely a big factor (har-har) in my decision to shut down a new potential relationship. Wider around than my wrist and long too. There was a lot of other legitimate stuff too - guy being kind of crazy, guy being employed in the freelance/pot dealing arts, me still being hungup on…

I know a guy with just this look. Don't think he's gay, though I don't speak for him on that subject. I know he's a hot guy eating donuts with a young Stalin vibe though. Somebody star this shit, get me outta the greys when I'm doing a public service!

#notallmen, for sure, but I know in my relationship the only party who can say "I used to get into bloody fistfights" also happens to be packing the penis, and that's more often true in hetero pairings (but #notallheteropairings) than the reverse. Having a bunch of other chicks around didn't help Richard Speck's…

Some of us find it to be a tacky oversharing of flesh on all colors. Not well played, humanity.

if that's her best, her best won't do

They really brought together the hotness with the actual vocal talent in a way few other groups have.

So wrong. This website is a bunch of angry chicks that fawn all over really attractive women whenever they get a chance.

I'm also left wondering what is the better alternative, and how would it be received? If people did just say shit like "I'm trying to do a black thing, musically" or "check out my Puerto Rican inspired baby hairs!" I feel like that would get even more dirty looks, and also be picked apart by a bunch of people coming…

Role reversal: Restaurant workers who stubbornly refused to understand WTF the customer was asking for. I was working in a restaurant and this customer came and and ordered some food from the manager, who was working the counter. He wanted this, that, blah blah blah and "a couple of meatball wedges." WEDGES? WTF are…

I've been involved in an exercise cult in the past (Bikram yoga - there's nothing like it!). So I was game to try SoulCycle when my rich bitch Manhattanite girlfriend insisted that it was the best and most fun thing ever. I was ready to have my mind blown by the EXPERIENCE. But, actually, it was basically like the…

Also the writer's generous take on Taylor's male gaze avoiding persona is pretty badly undermined by those photos which are HOT in a very male gaze-y kind of way. I don't necessarily blame the people who appear in photos for how they come out, but if you want to suggest that someone takes conscious pains to avoid that…

Disagree with the writer of the linked article's assertion that "human shit is so much nastier than dog shit." Dog shit is really nasty. People who are walking dogs that poop on walks may as well be walking their pooping human friends around and leaving human turds, and should stop pretending like it is a charming or…

Yes! I don't think that being a correct contemporary feminist means denying the sometimes dramatic implications of having a female body. I don't have a diagnosis, but I do have one day of the month where I am in the bathroom 20+ times crapping my brains out, sweaty and crampy... and usually a day or two before that…

I am aware of Lululemon mostly as a result of this blog's posts, even though they are usually supposedly critical. So I walked into the Lululemon store, mostly to be appalled. But I wanted everything in sight! They're cute exercise clothes really are the cutues! Such prints, such embellishments! I can't afford that…

In every locker room experience, you run the risk of being naked around someone who may be attracted to you. I used to do yoga at a nice place where everyone just got completely naked, and nobody hid behind their towels, and I think lustful lesbians were the last thing on anybody's mind. If someone enjoyed my sweaty…

And that's why it's complicated. Because whether a thief is ever caught or brought to justice, no one questions that a crime has been committed or that some punishment is due when someone's shit gets stolen. But if rape includes "any sex with a drunk person" then we are all rapists and, by the same standard, we all…

Will their be epic discussion about how tired and sexist that good girl/bad girl talk is? Or is it empowered when chicks do it to themselves?

She's only a model in the sense of having famous parents and a decent figure and no foreseeable need for a profession, right?