You can hire minorities and still have racist thinking.

To this, I suggest this and taking one of the tests on race: https://implicit.harvard.edu/implicit/takea…

Thank you for saying this and being real about it.

I disagree. Working together means men taking their turn and dealing with the ziplock baggy genital deal. If we're going to work together, we both have to share in the "work". It's not a "tough shit, I don't care how it is for you". It's "Yeah, it's not ideal. But women have done our part. This method offers better…

Not appealing at first glance, no. But both male and female versions ::ahem:: dampen the visual appeal. Female condoms at least provide more protection. And, again, us women have been putting up with the ziplock bag around your dick. Your turn!

haha..."that thing". And, yes, it sure can!

Part of sex for women is the visual, too. And we've been having to deal with the visual of a penis tightly wrapped in plastic wrap and coming at us for far too long.

Stick it out, girl. Took me a solid year of being off the pill before things got back to normal. And they've never been better.

We need to stop putting anyone on pedestals to begin with.

Thank you!!

Well, yeah, I mean I agree that most men probably aren't going to respond via #1. All 3 of those choices are based off of our current system where white men decide what everyone else looks at. If men's appearance was more emphasized in our culture, I don't think white men would be the one's deciding what is put out…

hahahaha!

Emphasizing men's appearance would naturally de-emphasize women's, though.

Well said.

fine by me:)

Yes, we do have to face the shame of our history. I went and visited Germany for the first time last year and saw so many monuments, plaques, etc. dedicated to holocaust victims and survivors. Not only that, there were plaques saying things along the lines of: "This many Jewish people died in this spot", or "The…

We humans are all so awkward, I just love it.

That sounds rough. Parents having sex is just the worst. My friend and I once walked in on her parent's getting it on in the middle of the afternoon. Her mom was screaming "OH REGIS" so loudly we thought something was wrong and busted into their bedroom. Bad idea.

terrifying.

The article is talking more about being there to help your son contain and regulate his big emotions, rather than having him go to his room and letting him process it on his own. I say from experience, when we can keep ourselves as calm as possible during outbursts, and still stay present, empathic, and engaged, not…