OMG. I never thought of that.

My fiance lives with me and I'm not changing the title on my home. I bought it, I paid the down payment, I pay the mortgage, it was and is my investment and our pre-nup will say that. He pays utilities and HOA dues and chips in for repairs (he has a pretty sweet deal, but, I make 4x as much. Splitting it evenly…

That is an excellent plan! You have collateral in the relationship and in a world where women still get shafted financially, that's just good sense!

I get what you meant by that, but as someone who was on the opposite end, it screams Serious Relationship With An Escape Hatch. My ex did the whole "my house is your house" nonsense because he also bought his condo before we met. Only...nothing in it was ever mine, I couldn't put nails in the wall, none of my wall…