"but are promise rings something that people in their late 20s/early 30s realistically do? " My daughter who is 23 has one from her boyfriend who is 25. She did not understand why I did not think this was the best thing ever. I didn't even like them when I was in high school, I am just not that kinda girl…

Having worked in IT for the government this is all to common, or they send documents via AOL, Yahoo etc from home to their work computer. Then they get surprised when I had to come and take their work computer away because they infected the network with a virus. SMH.

I am confused, what does it matter if it was an IUD or an anxiety attack? Outside of the obvious health risks? Either way, it seems wrong to penalize her.

LOL I love her crazy ass, she is still amazing.

She is gorgeous and we should all look this good with curves.

You are welcome world.

Its Lenny Kravitz....uh who wouldn't?

I am sorry for all that you endured. You are a survivor and no one can take that from you.

Not ah-dorable bears, adorable monkeys. Clearly they are monkeys looks at the babies tummies.

I love T.I ., that is all.

Soooo basically...we are damned if we do and damned if we don't? This article would be more meaningful if you gave a clue as to what you would like non-black folks to do. It seems we can't win either way. Invariably someone will label me a racist for even questioning this article but at the end of the day I am…

Bloody Jack also sailed with her in the Bloody Jack novels by L.A. Meyer. :) She was a very kick ass woman.

In the 90's I worked for a cable shopping channel. Every day you get the "are you wearing pantyhose" "are you wearing panties" "what kind of shoes are you wearing" calls or the guys calling that were masturbating while calling you, or the worse ones were the violent ones. The ones where they threatened to hurt a…

I got divorced when I was 28 I believe after 8 years of marriage. When I moved back home to my parents, I had issues from my parents who were pissed I got knocked up and married the idiot, which ok was understandable though they went about it in a fucked up way but what hurt me the most was my BFF who seemed to blame…

Was she living out of the van? How did she get in and out without a horde of cats flying out when she opened the door? I'm so confused, but so happy they were rescued.

I think its a combination of the fact that she had fans that were across the spectrum culturally and racially diverse which was still more difficult then it is today, and she died young and in the prime of her life with all the expectations of her life and talent cut short. Why do we hang on to Jim Morrison or Elvis,…

My daughter is a model, she is 5'10 and wears a size 4. By industry standards she is neither a plus size nor a regular size model. She also is very ethnic looking which has been a bonus and an issue. Its a weird weird industry.

I am horrified by Dear Prudence's response. First of all, you make a commitment to an animal its like a member of your family. You do not take putting down your pet lightly, it should be because the quality of life is gone or because the animal is suffering and not because you might lose sleep or OMG not get a…

My brother just retired from the police, he was a cop in both DC and NM. He is gay and did have some issues mostly within his own division. While not feminine and I cant speak for trans, I do know that he is was one of many gay/lesbian cops/firefighters he worked with and its becoming more mainstream as we speak. …

Yea no, Im 1971 and my daughter is 1991. I don't care who is older man or woman that is just too gross for my brain.