Congrats! Glad to hear you're doing well!

I have 4 boys. We thought the last one was going to be a girl at first, but... nope!

Somehow, it feels wrong to star this... but I have to. Oh my god. My girlparts are still clenched after reading this. It may be days before they relax.

I said, "Why the hell would you put ONIONS in it! You hate onions!" He said, "The recipe said to use onions."

That headline. I double-taked in classically comical fashion, because I skimmed it as I was setting my phone down, and had to pick it back up and read it again, just to be sure I actually read that right.

Survivor here. Trust me, you aren't the only one with some complicated feelings on this topic... I creeped myself out for a long time, before I realized I'm not the only one.

And all I can think of is this song... but I don't think this is what he meant!

Yeah, I wore a bra once last winter and... no. Just... no. I love those tank tops with the built in shelf bra, though. Those are just the right amount of support for those days it feels like I need it or if I'm wearing a really thin shirt.

I quit wearing bras entirely about 2 years ago, and I feel so much better, now. I get some stares and occasional comments, but fuck 'em. I'm not in pain all the time, and I don't have red marks and bruises from wires and straps gouging into me anymore! I'm definitely coming out ahead, in my opinion.

it's ok, I shamed myself :D the generations of teachers in my family make it impossible for me to ignore my own writing errors!

There's a mayo-type spread called 'veganaise' that is egg free, if you're interested :)

Ok, I have to find these. My 9 y.o. son will go nuts over them. He eats jalepenos straight off the bush! (yes, I know there is supposed to be a tilde over the n in jalepenos. It won't cooperate with me.)

We've pretty much always been poly, it's just always been how we work best. I've had 3 long-term "extra" relationships during our 18 years together, where the other person has become part of the family, but anything short term, the kids don't meet (unless it's just as a friend). One of those men is still a dear…

We're hoping to move to a house that's got an upstairs flat and a downstairs flat, so we can all be officially in the same place, but for now, this works pretty well. The kids go back and forth, pretty much at will, but they all sleep at Husband's and my place. O-H's mom and brother are both disabled, so he lives over…

LOL. I don't think I'm an inspiration, it's just how life worked out for us! We've gotten very little judgement, overall. A few people have expressed that they are uncomfortable with our arrangement, and there have been many raised eyebrows. I'm sure we have been the hot topic of gossip on occasion, too. I think it's…

Thank God for sensible judges.

He has the option to, should he choose to, but he hasn't yet. Same goes for O-H.

I wholeheartedly agree with this statement.

From the movie Fatal Attraction, where the guy has a fling with a woman who ends up stalking him, and she kills and boils his daughter's pet rabbit.

Yay, more poly people around here! My husband, my other-husband, and I live happily in next-door apartments, with Husband's and my 4 kids and O-H's mom and brother. One big happy, for 6 years now.