Yeah, do NOT hit on her if she works at the café.

Yes, do NOT hit on her if she works at the café. Waitresses and baristas who have to put with this behaviour are saints.

Thanks! The most important word, even. Do NOT hit on her if she works at the café. :)

Yeah, for some reason the most important word of that sentence disappeared: do NOT hit on her if she works at the café.

Here’s the thing about approaching strange women: you need to read body language, and to pick your moment. When approaching a strange woman you cannot be all about YOUR needs; you have to really care to find out what she wants. Men who approach women tend to only focus on themselves — there’s often no room for a woman…

What!? How is this a fair trial if his previous torturing and murdering a woman is not brought up? The American justice system sucks.

I think the rule is, don’t approach strangers, unless you are genuinely in need of assistance. This idea that you (collective ‘you’) can hit on women everywhere? No, you can’t.

I have personally written about the Rohingya people and tried to make people aware about what’s going on in Myanmar. I have signed petitions to urge the UN to do something about the situation, (https://www.change.org/p/united-nations-urge-the-un-muslim-world-to-protect-rohingya-muslims-in-burma, https://www.amnesty.org…

So instead of really taking time to learn about the The Rohingya people and their plight, in this thread you’re all posting rape-kittens. http://groupthink.kinja.com/rape-kittens-1780004568

The outfit is horrible, but that way way of standing offends me the most. It’s the “I have to pee, but if I cross my legs I’ll also look thinner”-pose. Stand like a normal person!

Australia!

This is ridiculous. A person can be a feminist and still not be perfect in every single way. We have got to stop doing this: expecting good people to be without flaw. It simply isn’t possible, and if you dig enough, you’ll find WE ALL do fucked up shit. However, Joss cheating on his wife, terrible though it may be for…

Irene McGee is wonderful, and has really great thoughts on TV and personality. If you have the opportunity to, I’d really love it if you’d invite her back to discuss other reality shows.

Excellent research and essay, but the constant switching of tenses throughout made it a sometimes confusing read:

Not Tiffany, Regina Phalange.

To me, Holly and Tracey joke around too much, and their jokes are just not funny. They similarly also spend way too long on the ads, always adding personal anecdotes that annoy me more than they make me want to try the products. (I don’t care what you think about Blue Apron! Get on with the show! Stop laughing at…

Agreed. Everything is free for a kid, but unless you’re a spoiled horrible brat, you don’t get most things.

My lord... What a beautiful man!

He was gorgeous. I just rewatched the Big Love video, just to swoon a bit...