WHen I found out Sofia was dating my "lover" Jo, I was like, I aint even mad...they're too hot for me to even be upset!! Get it girl

I never thought I would defend Victoria Beckham, but if I saw Samuel L. Jackson sitting next to me, I too would probably freeze and be all "Don't be a nerd, don't be a nerd, don't be a nerd." And then I would open my eyes, and he would be across the room talking to Quentin Tarrentino and I would see him gesture in my…

I don't remember meeting my wife, though it had to be during freshman year of college at some point based on our mutual friends and classes. A couple years later, we got to know each other and became friends. Then we got drunk one night and hooked up. We've been together ever since.

I totally agree that lots of people shouldn't have children (some because of skillsets and some because they are monsters). But, as one half of a "married but childless hetero couple" who gets asked about having kids, I feel the need to draw the distinction between "having the rights skills" to be a parent and being…

I still hate Nancy Grace with the fire of one thousand suns.

Preach!

How many times do people have to read about child abuse before they start realizing not everyone should become a parent? Every married but childless hetero couple I know gets questioned about when they're going to have kids and/or why they don't have kids yet. Seriously, stop acting like it's the "normal" thing to do…

Nope. Sorry, they were terrible.

A lot of white people just do not understand how these microaggressions, day in, day out, can break a person. I'm actually quite surprised that Marquel's experience resonated with this show's viewers but I'm glad it did. Not that I think getting angry is an invalid response! I do all the time- but I also know that…

And host Chris has famously/infamously said that the show will always be about "young, pretty people" because it sells. Don't get me started on studies that show even little black kids pick white baby dolls as "good." FURY. Head desk repeatedly unto concuss. Argh. I really liked him. Maybe he's helped the cause. sad…

Fuck the Bachelor/Bachelorette. Someone should just create a seperate Bachlor/Bachelorette show for people of color. We need to stop relying on white producers to represent us because most of them don't want to.

i'm the antithesis of a sorority girl, so initially i was ho-hum when i saw friends complaining about this on social media. but i get it now. an acquaintance of mine is the former editor of vibe. according to him, when black women watch something en masse, it makes number (or get ratings in media-speak). the black…

Why did he move? There was room for everyone on the bench! Sea Lion Cuddles!

How could you even be upset being ousted by an adorables sea lion? Clearly, that sea lion is the boss of the bench. If that had happened in a prison yard, dude would be owned by the sea lion.

It's like when my cat hogs the bed and I just curl around him because the cat has gone limp like an Occupy Portland protester…

If the sea lion had shoved that backpack off of the bench, it would have been a nice finish.

Prior to the internet, once your time was up, it was up. In the past Jessica Simpson would be long forgotten now, only turning up in one of those Where Are They Now deals. But thanks to Twitter and Instagram these people can hang around forever. She's incredibly wealthy. She doesn't need to do this.

She makes cute shoes and accessories...and they sell. She is vastly wealthy. Why is she doing this posing thing? I wish I had her money...I would buy a tropical island, go there, and snorkel and dive to my heart's content.

Okay, I'm sad that I know this, but they said it was for the "Bachelor Gives Back" charity which raises money and then selects other charities to whom they donate funds. I don't think BGB is actually a charity organization themselves so much as a housing entity for the funds, so maybe they didn't want to make too big…