.... sorry, what?

That's a hell of a fair trade! What can be done with a vulva differs from vulva owner to vulva owner. I have been lucky in that the previous vulva owner with whom I was partnered was incredibly sensitive and very much enjoyed any stimulation of the vulva - lips, surrounding skin, etc - whatsoever. Sucking, licking,…

*Ladies. (Unless you're speaking of yourself - in which case, yay! Good for you!)

I honestly haven't the foggiest... oy vey, you could be right, I just don't know.

... was I supposed to laugh at the part where campy gay is campy?

I mean, I, um, I wear men's clothes and stuff better than most men do... and a lot of men find that intimidating...But but I'm a conventionally attractive blonde with tits that guys like to blatantly stare at even if they're tucked under a waistcoat and shirt and blazer! That makes it okay, right? That justifies my…

Wat? What? Where did the lesbianism come from? Did Amanda Knox allegedly bang a woman? (I can't even remember half the details of that case, I'm sorry.)

Huh. Could be. I find that very interesting... It might even be a generational thing, not just a straight-woman thing. I don't know much about the dynamics of sex within older generational relationships, but I can't imagine the phrase "don't slut shame" or "madonna/whore complex" were in many peoples' vocabulary back…

I get your point, but I disagree with the implication (specifically in your second paragraph) that just because some relationships include sex earlier than others means that they're not built on an emotional bedrock. That's not the case. I do hope that getting to where you'll have great sex will be easy for you, but I…

Unless you're both monogamous and like it that way. I know when I'm in a relationship with someone I end up not desiring other people as much to the point where even if I'm not getting any, I don't -want- sex or intimacy from other people - just my partner.

I'm not going to scream at you, but really: Women have the same problem you do, too. Have you been reading any of the responses? Scroll up to the top of the page. Look at ALL DESE LADIES saying "hey, this really sucks, my partner (often male, from what I'm seeing in the comments) has a super low sex drive and I feel…

Donald Trump does not have nearly enough hair for it to be mistaken for a pubic wig, unfortunately. (That is the definition of merkin, correct?)

Obviously one would pick the "more masculine" one in the relationship, based off of completely arbitrary standards of this super-vacuous concept called "masculinity," and decide that THEY would want all the sex all the time.

You are asking a lesbian if you are supposed to do something with the scrotum. I thought YOU'D know! Anyone? Do we know what to do with a scrotum?

I fucking wish the stereotype was that lesbians slept with anyone at the drop of the hat because I too, would rather be associated with the sexually aggressive/possibly promiscuous lesbian than the sexless, libidoless lesbian. Ugh, the bisexual stereotypes are all too annoying/aggravating/unfortunate and everyone…

Ugh, I unfortunately still cannot take care of myself nor could my partners (all 1.5 of them) take care of me, though I think that's more of an inexperience problem than anything else. I just really, really enjoy sex, even if I can't quite get ALL the way there, and masturbation takes the edge off - though it doesn't…

My name is FishnetsForever and I'm a back-clawer.

A partner refusing to have sex is its own separate relationship complication to someone just not wanting sex as often as you do. Negotiation is an option, but with the "frigid wife" scenario, often the wife does not WISH to negotiate and is perfectly fine with whatever level of sex they are currently having.

Ughhhh I so get you with that. I'm one of those horny people that DOES NOT bang right away. Some do, and that's okay, but I am ALLLL about the foreplay until I know you really well as a person (because one, I find sex is better if I already know someone's foreplay triggers and she already knows mine, and two, I dunno,…

Well, and then there's the whole "if you're not straight" problem, which fucks that gender paradigm directly to hell. I've never heard of the stereotype of women with naturally higher libidos being comic fodder OR victims of abuse - I've never been abused and I've got a very high libido, which none of my partners ever…