I’ve been on both sides (I have matured since high school and college, btw) I think part of it is also that humans who aren’t complete assholes are uncomfortable with having to tell someone something that they won’t want to hear. So if they can get away with just ghosting a person they don’t want to date so they can…

I’ve gotten ads for Mormon and Jewish dating sites (I’m an atheist and was not born into either of those religions. I also got some ad about unplanned pregnancy, but targeted to men who got their girlfriends pregnant (I’m a woman)?

It’s probably the PR pat on the back, because changing the announcements is a hell of a lot less expensive and time consuming than fixing the many actual problems with the subway.

I know you’ve been posting this in other threads, and while I think we all would like this theory to be true so that we can say we weren’t wrong to like George Takei, there are guys who claim to be socially progressive who are still abusive towards their significant others, sexual partners, or dates. I’ve read too…

Also, the consequences you mention for women saying they were raped still happen even when they’re telling truth. =( But like really, do people not realize that this is why rape survivors do not make their accusations lightly?

Ahh, thank you so much!

Thanks! =)

Are there any skincare products you would particularly recommend for an adult with oily, still acne prone skin?

I would say tread cautiously, and don’t count on getting back together, but it was very nice of you to reach out to him and make sure he’s okay. I’m finally ending five months of unemployment this week, but I can definitely understand why he would feel like he shouldn’t or doesn’t deserve to date someone right now,…

I’m hoping I’ll be good with money now that I’ll finally be starting a full time job next week, but we’ll see. My parents helped me make a weekly/monthly budget and they also suggested that if I don’t mind paying in cash for a lot of stuff, to have different envelopes of cash for different things (groceries, coffee,…

Not gonna lie, when I was reading this article i was like, “if i was a kid, i’d want the shit out of this toy.” Hell, i’d take one as an adult, but if they’re in high demand, i’ll probably only be able to buy them for my cousins who are actually still kids.

Having worked with DV survivors who definitely had PTSD and also having my own experiences with ASR, this is too true. I had ASR after getting into a bad car accident (well bad for my car and my anxiety, but physically I just had whiplash). I had to keep myself distracted with books and constantly looking at my phone…

I got to meet Lindy last summer when she was on a tour for her memoir and it was so awesome and I fangirled so hard.

26, no kids and online dating is at best mediocre for me. :/

I’m actually going to a talk called “Sexualizing Cancer” tonight and now I want to ask the speaker’s opinion about this stupid mirror.

If nothing else, at least it looks like I might be right when I said that the only winner coming out of the Trump presidency would be George W. Bush’s reputation.

Yep, back when the Hobby Lobby ruling came out and someone I went to high school with was like, “We have to respect people’s religious views!” I tried to point out that IUDs and birth control do not cause abortion and that’s a scientific fact. Then I got yelled at for not respecting people’s decisions to not believe…

Wait, War of the Roses is fake?! =( I mean, I guess it’s not super surprising, but still...

Lolol, that sounds almost better than the one I listen to when my dad and I go on car rides in the mornings, called Blown Off. The premise of that is basically a person has the radio station call someone who ghosted them after their date. Most of the time, the person who ghosted did so because the other person was a…

Bumble is very similar for me, and i’m also in NYC. I’ll admit that I’m terrible at messaging guys, but I also see how like half of my matches unmatched me before i message them and before the 24 hour window is up, so it discourages me from wanting to put any effort in. :/ I mean, i know a lot of people just right…