“Also, assholes are assholes, why is it my fault some guys are assholes?”

The vacuuming thing in the article didn't sound like the woman was trying to punish him by withholding sex. It's not even clear if either of them had an expectation of sex to happen that morning. But having someone break a promise and disrupt your space doesn't exactly put one in a sexy mood. People are allowed to…

Psst. Comment history. Guy's a total troll.

I have no idea why your wife wouldn't want to have sex with you....

Women lose desire for their partners when said partners stop trying, don't respect them, don't contribute to the running of the household, don't show affection unless they want to get their dicks wet, etc. If you want your wife to fuck you, give her a reason to want to fuck you. Or you can just expect her to do it as…

She's being petulant or he's being petulant for thinking he shouldn't have to do a basic household chore, unless he gets sex for it? He was the one who brought sex as a transaction for cleaning into the equation, not her.

So it's petulant now to want someone to keep their promises as to if and when they are going to do something? I'm demoting you to "troll-status" in regards to responses. Saying someone is "petulant" for expecting promises to be kept is, well, petulant.

Okay, that's fair. You know I think is fair? Not being attracted to someone who says they are going to do something and then doesn't do it. I didn't read her statement as "I'm withholding sex from you because you displeased me" as much as "I'm not interested in having sex because you promised you would do this thing,…

I think it's a bit presumptuous to say that this is how "most guys" will see it. Are you the official spokesperson for "most guys"?

I think you and I read their interactions totally differently.

Him: So if I got out the vacuum, then you'd be turned on?

The idea that equality reduces sexytimes in straight cis relationships is the lamest thing ever, not least of which because Gottlieb seems obsessed with a fictional sexy reality where everyone is all boners, all the time. As you mention, Gottlieb doesn't have a control, so it's not like this analysis actually has any…

Or maybe different women want different things because we're a large, diverse group of people from different backgrounds and different parts of the country/world?

Men are more likely to be hit by lightning than falsely accused of rape, but paranoia about it is widespread. There's no reason whatsoever to fear false accusations but some men do, and often they do it's because of two things: they think vile things about women, and they know that their hatred of women might have led…

Why of course I didn't molest this daughter. It was impossible you see, because I was in love and married my other daughter.

just look at the number of comments here, every time an article about Woody Allen/Dylan Farrow is posted:

Yeah! Black men are never and have never been falsely accused of rape!! When black men are accused of rape or sexual assault (especially if it's of a white victim) they just get away with it! It's terrible! Historically black men do not have this problem, it is a white men problem. You're suck a moron.

Yeah, cry me a river, dude. Very few pedos get caught because very few get reported, sometimes because their victims aren't verbal.

I'm so sick of dudes——-usually dudes——-talking about how Farrow (wink-wink, nudge-nudge) started this in the middle of a custody duspute.

"when I was in the blissful early stages of a happy new relationship with the woman I'd go on to marry"—UGHHH, Woody, given how fucked up that relationship was, I can't believe it is being used as a defense against the possibility of another horrible relationship. His obliviousness (among many other things) offends me.