Seriously? You don't think we live in a white culture? Are you seriously saying that America doesn't privilege white people? Now I'm not American, but I'd have to argue to differ.

Oh totally! Lets all ignore the hell Asian women get from their own for dating outside their culture. Or how those of us who are non-traditional get shunted from a huge part of the dating pool. Lets ignore that it was always white men that asked me out, and I was virtually invisible to anyone else. Obviously this was…

Here's the thing, I'm talking about the dehumanization and fetishing of Asian women, and everyone here is rushing to tell me how white men have it worse, or that Asian women deserve this. I don't mind engaging you in this topic, but lets keep in mind that I came in here to describe my experiences being treated…

Thanks for the support. But you see I actually hate all white men, and I only married one for status and to spite all Asian men. By telling people my own experiences I'm the real oppresser here, but I don't quite realize that so I need more people to tell me. I'm actually the worst ever :P

Don't get me wrong, I've dated awesome white men in the past (even married one particularly goofy one), and I in no way think that all white men are problematic. My problem is that it wasn't just a few fetishes, it was the majority of men who asked me out. It's extremely frustrating dating as an Asian woman. Firstly I…

I'm saying as a Asian woman that it's actually a huge pain in the ass to date, and that unless you have been in our place, you have no idea what it's like. To say that Asian women are just looking for white man because white stereotype is infuriating and infantizing. We live in a white culture. Everything we're ever…

That's exactly the problem though. It's commonly non-Asian men attracted to us for being Asian, not for a giant list of individual qualities that white women are afforded. You would never hear a guy say: oh, I decided to date this white girl because whites are so feminine and know how to treat a man. Nope. You'd head…

Yes! How dare us Asians think a white dude might be interested in us as a person instead of a racial stereotype. The fact that vast majority of men we meet are white has nothing to do with anything, and we obviously just obsessed with the idea of a strong GI joe who will save us from our people. It's completely our…

Oh god, I'm a Adam Levine apologist.

Also this:

In my defence I have taken the time to create a list of "sexiest men alive" that I'd far rather not bang (and am far more upset about) than Adam Levine:

To be honest I've never heard an interview with him or seen The Voice, but he did do tonnes of funny things for much younger me. For no logical reason I think he'd make a really fun sub...so I guess there's that? Honestly I forgot the man existed for at least 6 years...

Meanwhile I still feel like we're the only couple on Earth who actually prefer condoms :(

It's a misrepresented statistic the MRAs have been trotting out lately. Here's a response from the CDC on how it's wrong: http://www.reddit.com/r/againstmensr…

I always ran into that issue too (my thumb is just too small for the Nexus 4, sigh), but I just tried the volume down thing and it worked for me (thankyouthankyouthankyou! I can't believe I didn't know about that!)

As someone who has taught Junior High, I 100% agree with you. Fighting dress code violations is a constant uphill battle at the best of times. I read the headline and was enraged, only to find myself asking myself why this is news after reading the article. Obviously it's a serious issue if they're picking on him to…

From the video it seems like the suspension is over him cussing at the admin about it. I've personally seen people suspended for refusing to follow school policy (three kids for refusing to take off their trenchcoats, which ended in a pretty spectacular rights to wear trenchcoats march...). As silly as it sounds, it…

Usually for Junior Highs you get some sort of break in the morning (so usually two classes, 10-15 minute break to switch out books, then two more classes, lunch then two more classes). So you would never have to carry more than two classes worth. I've seen it in several schools, and is usually the norm with a lot of…

Bleh I'd like to clarify again after reading the comments that I don't agree that he should be punished for not acting outside his gender-norms. However, this really strikes me as a kid refusing to follow code (which is gender-neutral in this case, and very common as bags of any sort can be absolute hell in the…

It's extremely shitty if they're gender-policing this kid, however I wouldn't be too quick to jump the gun on it. The Junior High I worked at had a strict no-bags in the classroom policy, and this included purses, handbags, messenger bags, and backpacks. If this is truly school code as the superintendent suggested,…