I have heard teachers say this, but always jokingly. Well I have heard pre-teachers say it as well, but those are the type who get to their practicum and drop out, or at the very least don't make it through their first year. The first few years of a teacher are absolutely insane. On top of desperately trying to keep…

Ironically enough I sometimes feel the same although I'm in the opposite side. I've had my fun and have seen more than my share of penii, but my partner was a virgin when we started dating. I'm competitive, and I want to be the best lover humanly possible for him. And even though I know our kinks match up perfectly,…

I struggled with this quite a bit as well back when I taught. The thing that drove me mad was the girls were routinely punished for wearing tank tops while boys could always be found around the phys ed wing topless. I'm all for professional school wear (including gym attire), but when I received a lecture for sending…

First of all, having preferences is a completely different thing than body shaming someone. No one here is arguing that people shouldn't have preferences, we're saying that not fitting into said preferences shouldn't be an excuse to degrade them.

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You're exactly who I was looking for! Thank you so much for the info. And yup, on etsy. I really love that guy's designs, although I'm not quite sure which one we'd go for. They're all so pretty! (Although I think the starry night one is my personal fav ;) You have awesome taste in jewellery!)

Thanks for the info! I worry about the removing part too, and knowing us we'll either loose them or never wear them :( I just love the look so much!

Thanks for the info and the link! :)

That's terrifying! I never even thought about that. We were looking at the titanium ones with wood inlay, but I don't think titanium would be much better than tungsten in that sense. Thanks for the heads up!

It's more the look, but I do love the carbon fibre ones! We were debating those too. There's just something badass about saying you have a carbon fibre ring.

Ha! That's hilarious! Thanks for trying :)

Thanks for the tip! We've looked a bit into titanium, but I never thought about tungsten! I'll definitely give that a look :)

So after a billion years of being lazy/contemplating it Colesir and getting hitched in August. We were originally against the idea of rings...but we're slowly warming up the idea, and then we found wooden rings and I think we both were sold.

I think lying about being a virgin would ultimately cause more grief in the end. Guys who would pressure you into sex earlier than you want would probably not get deterred by this, unless they're really caught up in the whole virgin/whore dichotomy scheme and are only looking to settle down with someone who's 'pure'.…

I think I knew it fairly on, and he claims the same. For me it was genuinely loving their company, a level of comfort and friendship that it feels like my partner is almost an extension of myself...if that makes any sense. I'm someone who needs my personal bubble, and would get upset when anyone intruded on it for too…

I kind of disagree. The only times I've had bad sex have always gone back to something they did (unconsensual anal sex, removing the condom, expectation of constant BJs without returning the favour, little/no foreplay despite my best efforts followed by the cemented belief that after he comes in half a minute sex was…

I used to feel that way until multiple orgasms. Now biology and I are bffs.

I was going to write out a long explanation on how wrong his 'science' is (starting off with orgasm not being ejaculation therefore not necessary for male reproduction at all...and about a thousand other things that would make an evolutionary biologist cry), but I think you said it perfectly. Dying of laughter over…

Nah, for places which pay minimal wage it's a different set of rules. In my province I can pretty much guarantee that the server is going to make $10/hr plus tips, which is a world away from the 2-something some states allow. Here a server who gets no tips is often going to do better than a lot of servers getting tips…

I blame Italy for my love of them. My partner grew up in Italy and pretty much all but demanded one. I thought he was insane until we travelled there and I fell in love. We had one within a month of returning.