I've always used having body hair as a way to weed out men who are selfish in bed...maybe I should make up an epic 11 paragraph crap evo-psychish response as to how women have been using this for millions of years to weed out men who are crap in the sack. I seriously wish I had the time and the imagination of that…

We were told to always do this in a grade-school perspective, and on top of that ensure that there was another teacher/co-worker around the general area whenever we had one-on-ones. It's kind of shitty that he was doing it only with female students, as he should have been doing it with all, but it's becoming standard…

Not true. Women have a sort of ceiling effect with testosterone. It's true that for some women it might raise their arousal, but for women with a baseline already at that point, it's not going to do anything.

Yeah, this whole is just bleh. How is this not bodysnarking?

I'd be pretty pissed off if we zoomed up on someone's cameltoe or nipple-y shirt. Give the guy a break, accidental boners are tough enough as it is. We don't need to be the asshole bullies pointing them out and mocking them.

Ex from college showed up on my facebook dressed in blackface. I want to say something, but I really hate facebook shitstorms. The 24 positive comments makes me feel sick...and I thought he was a decent guy. Honestly apart from my current partner, I'd say he was probably the best guy I've ever dated. He's way better…

I was thinking more of those times where you can see the nipple outline on a shirt or cameltoe. Either way it seems pretty crappy. I have serious issues with bodyshaming, and I really feel this falls into that.

I'm as grumpy and non-religious as it comes, but I have to say I love love the United Church. It's what I absolutely imagine a feminist Christian church to look like. Plus I saw you guys handing out condoms the other day, which is just awesome.

I'm not entirely sure why people are being douchebags to you, so I'll come right out and apologize that people are chastising you for asking about safer sex. It's probably best to go with condoms until you're in a monogamous relationship and on another form of BC, but you can't really change the past, and you're doing…

I wouldn’t bring up the not attracted to him part, but I’d try and corner him and have a long talk. Explain to him that you were exhausted, and it’s pretty shitty that he is pissed off at you. You’re human, not a fleshlight, and there’s going to be nights when you’re not feeling 100%, and to make it all about his…

These videos have made my life complete.

Yeah, I'm sort of in the same boat as you. I don't feel that they should shift to condoms instead of testing like gay porn, but include both. A lot of people feel it's not a pornstar's job to be a sex educator, and I understand this argument. I just feel that porn really does hold a grip on society, and the industry…

Yeah, my issue with the whole argument is even that wanting to be first is something generally done with objects and non-humans. Humans don't always like being the first at everything. Sure we might like being the first to ski in new snow, or drive a bran new car...but these are things, not people. You probably…

Ditto, but it's not too late! I'm sending out invoices right now.

Sounds like a whiny MRA. I can't even get upset because I know how sad an pathetic his life has to be before you hit that sinkhole. How miserable that life must be...

I have no beef with guys with good aim or who will clean up if they don't, but resentment builds quickly when you end up sitting on some piss on the seat, or your sock ends up soaked in piss (yeah...I'm still a little bitter, but when it happened to the point that I actually stopped wearing socks in the washroom, I…

Ditto, and I can't really blame them. Sometimes it's just nice to sit down and waste 10 minutes reading some magazines. Plus no arguments over toilet seats or bad aim...I really can't complain :)

I don't know, I really feel that every exclusive club has to cater to the privileged and non-privileged side. The gym is kind of a funny example, because it's kind of a funny place. I'd be willing to support a male gym that would encourage men who felt uncomfortable in a coed gym, or men's shelters. Though there's…

In Edmonton there's two men-specific housings to help men get on their feet (I have a pamphlet somewhere, but I clearly remember there being two just for men). I've never worked in Vancouver, but it seems odd that there wouldn't be the same. Housing is something I could understand.

That sounds delicious! I've never tried their green curry, but I love their butter chicken, I'm unimaginative so I just put peppers, but that sounds so good that I might just have to try it :)