Get him to masturbate with condoms. It sounds silly but it worked for one of my partners. He'll go soft the first few times, but if he keeps using it every time he tries his body will eventually get fed up and adapt to the new sensation. Took my guy 3 weeks, but we never had a problem afterwards.

I dunno, but my brain immediately went to this.

Even over the counter? Or is it like yeast infection meds in which they'll pay for it, but you need a prescription which never happens because I'd rather pay the $20 then wait 3 hours for a walk in :(

I keep hearing more and more about Gynefix. I accidentally pulled out my own IUD through sheer carelessness, and I'm thinking I'll lean this way. There's all of one place in North America that'll do it (because it's fairly new/European? I have no idea...I keep meaning to look into it) and it's in Vancouver, but I'm…

I would would vote for Ron Paul* if his campaign was around building an underwater libertarian paradise...just sayin'.

Seriously. I'm really struggling to understand his views right now.

I'm kind of curious about that too. What about fertility enhancing drugs too? I know IVF would probably be out due to the whole only using some of the fertilized egg thing, but does the whole God doesn't want you to interfere with his will only stand up when a woman wants the right to have sex without risking…

If your city has a female-friendly/sex-positive sex store I would start there. We have one in our city and I absolutely love it. It's extremely welcoming, people are knowledgeable, no creeps, and no shame (quite the oppostite!). I've never really liked going into normal sex stores alone too...though you could always…

One of my biggest regrets as a pansexual was not coming out earlier (ended up coming out, then meeting the love of my life literally 2 months later). I seriously kills me that I was never able to be in a relationship with a woman, and lingers on the top of my should have done in life list. So perhaps I'm bias, but I…

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Ohoh this one too. Cattrolls exist too.

Yesssssss. More kittens.

Thanks so much for the advice, it really helps. I'll make sure to check out a few local places...I never really thought about getting to know the tattooist, but you make a really good point there. Thanks also for the support :)

Yeah, I really love her work (here's her website if you want to see more [www.amandawachob.com] ). And I completely agree with what you mean by narrow range. I absolutely love work done without outlines, but it seems so weird that you never see it...I'm kind of afraid there might be some logistics issue around it,…

Me too. Hell, I'd kill just to see some of her work in person. Every once and a while I'll stumble upon her work and it's usually this which resparks my interest in getting a tattoo.

Haahaa! Perfect.

The "I Hate My Tramp Stamp" story has reminded me how badly I want a tattoo...which I don't think was it's intention. To make things worse I read the "Why Put a Bumper Sticker on a Ferrari" article which really cemented my desire to get one done. I have been talked out of it most of my life...mainly from asshole…

Ugh that's horrifying. For the love of god guys don't do this, you're lovely the way you are.

I have the same problem. Come on, who would play Alliance? Really? They just don't understand :(

I find it extremely dependant on the relationship. I've had ones where the guy was incredibly useless, stress inducing, and selfish in bed and had it go from 3 times a day to three times a month in less than a year because I was stressed out, resentful, and found sex far more work than anything I got out of. Any…