I have a we-vibe 3. It is pretty cool. I especially like that it has the little charging station that you can keep on your bedside table and not have to worry about hiding when people come over cause it doesn't look like anything. My wife and I have been kinda on and off thinking about getting the 4, mostly for the…

Oh no! Our products are all completely sealed and go through testing to ensure they are truly submersible. In the case of We-Vibe 4 Plus it is completely encased in medical-grade silicone and charges inductively by just sitting in its base. It doesn't have any seams, holes or openings for water to get into. - Tristan

That feature isn't available today but, I will suggest it to our Product Development team :)

Totally understand why you might be worried, but fear not. The best way to approach bringing a vibrator into the relationship is to talk about how you want to enhance or add something new to sex, rather than fix or improve it. Bring your partner on the journey - research, purchase, and try it out together so it all…

If someone I'm dating gives me an ultimatum of any sort it has been my policy in the past (and will be in the future) to dump them on the spot. Ultimatums are controlling, manipulative behavior and are absolutely not okay.
Stating what you want and need can take a completely different form than an ultimatum, and should…

Reposted from last year (same question)(still gross!)

Was with him for 7 years, married for 2 — got pregnant after we got married. BUT between the time we married and I got pregnant I was diagnosed with chlamydia. OK, it was an infection — this was 1989 and I was always getting yeast infections anyway...and the doctor didn't really tell me anything other than my partner…

I've been lurking on Jez for ages and of all articles it took this one for me to speak up about...I'm disgusted with the audience and Harvey's reactions. She's so clearly proud of her hobby, the science and art of it should be cultivated and applauded. Seize the day youngin' and don't let the haters drag you down!

I can't be bothered to individually answer every instance I've seen scanning the comments, so I'm going to address this to all the people doing it collectively. You know who you are.

You do you, you strange awesome child.

My birthday is a few days before Christmas, and Barbie came out the year I was four. My father was sick that year and in and out of the hospital, and my mom was working nights in a restaurant to support us.

Speaking of love letters—

Things You Should Have In Your Closet By The Time You Are 30:

Thanks for this great interview. I'm 20 years into a relationship with a paraplegic (I have rheumatoid arthritis, so we often joke that I'm his legs and he's my arms ;) ) who has, over the past decade, developed complications that have made sex extremely difficult for both of us. While we still cuddle and enjoy each…

This was very interesting. I think if I were a young person reading this, I would have a different reaction and be more judgmental about this kind of marriage, but having been married for thirty five years, with all the attendant ups and downs, and my own experience in this area, I am much more open minded and less…

Thank you for sharing, Amy. I'm also befuddled by the overwhelming negative comments about Ashley Madison and cheating in general on Jez. THAT is the one topic guaranteed to get tongues clucked and pearls clutched, like no other.

Talk to him about this, for godsake!
"I know we're supposed to give up things in relationships to satisfy the other person" noooo. NOOOOOO. In a healthy, non-monogamous relationship, you DON'T have to give up being sexually full (I phrase things badly). You can be sexually satisfied and still have a wonderful, loving…

Speaking of kids and underwear, when I was in kindergarten I had a HUGE crush on my older brother's best friend Sam, a sexy older man in the 4th grade. Every day after school, after Sam and my bro locked themselves in his bedroom to avoid me, I would slide my Little Mermaid panties, one by one, underneath the door. …

For a long time I didn't have much or any hair. Maybe until I was three. But since I was a girl my mom put me in the hand-me-down dresses that my sister has used.

Meh. The dudes I've had with the biggest dicks thought that having a big dick was all they needed because they just pounded away. The smaller ones were awesome, honestly.