When my son was 16 I asked him if he knew more now then when he was 10. He said he knew a gazillion times more. I said what about from when you were 13? He said of course I know way more! I said I’m 40. Is it possible I’ve learned a bit more then you in my extra 27 years here on earth? I don’t tell you things to boss…

You don't just marry someone for sex. Your spouse is your co-parent (potentially), your financial partner, your workout/running partner (or team mate if you enjoy sports together), your friend, your dinner date, you are dual landlords together (manage a home together), your social partner, your religious cohort and…

I have the original We-Vibe. Yup. Remember back when it was sold in a sunglass case? (if I could figure out how to post a pic I would.) Every time I pass the newer versions I dream of getting one. *sigh* They just keep getting better and better. (Yes I covet them and ask the sexspecialists at my local toy store about…

I agree. Sadly sometimes people don't know monogamy is not for them until they try it out. This may be different for young people today but when I was young I never even knew non-monogamy was an option. The only examples of relationships I saw were couples. I felt broken and abnormal because I couldn't make monogamy…

I agree. Sadly sometimes people don't know monogamy is not for them until they try it out. This may be different for young people today but when I was young I never even knew non-monogamy was an option. The only examples of relationships I saw were couples. I felt broken and abnormal because I couldn't make monogamy…

I agree. Sadly sometimes people don't know monogamy is not for them until they try it out. This may be different for young people today but when I was young I never even knew non-monogamy was an option. The only examples of relationships I saw were couples. I felt broken and abnormal because I couldn't make monogamy…

Yes to everything you say.

I've never heard of that or noticed that but now you've made me want to experiment with someone. I'm going to ask around also. If I see Shannon at another workshop I'll ask her. Regardless of what's going on with your mysterious ejaculation situation, it sounds like you two are having fun. Enjoy! Cheers to mad sexy…

Lol! It's always advisable to have the pump primed and ready. ;-)

Dr Shannon Bell (York University, Toronto) has been doing g-spot and female ejaculation demonstrations and workshops since 1989. She tested her ejaculate and found it had a higher ph, less urea, and less creatinine. There is also glucose (sugar) that gives the fluid it's taste and sticky texture.

I had been interested in squirting prior to the workshop. She just seemed to say the right thing at the right time.

I'm glad you found it interesting. (You're one of my fav commenters.) The woman who did the workshop, Dr. Shannon Bell (York University) tested her ejaculate and found it had a higher ph, less urea, and less creatinine. There is also glucose (sugar) that gives the fluid it's taste and sticky texture.

The Cliff Notes are in the comments as well as some links. I totally know what you mean. A friend had been trying to consciously squirt forever (read books, went to a different workshop etc) but couldn't. When I saw Shannon Bell's workshop we signed up and it was the golden (or should I say opaque?) ticket. :-)

Internet high five!! I agree 100%. We're so lucky to have this store in our city. Have you ever been to a workshop at Good For Her? If so what did you think? (I'm going to my first workshop there soon.)

She's something else. I'd love it if someone at jezebel would do an article on her and interview her.

Also: For more info check out either the film Gush: The Official Guide to G-Spot Sex & Female Ejaculation or the book Fast Feminism by Shannon Bell.

Her name is Shannon Bell. Google her and her wisdom using her name + female ejaculation. (Sorry for the delay. Thursday night is ladies wine night.)

Everyone's body is different ...that's my way of adding a clause that means this may or may not work for you. I've never squirted from PIV. My partner stroked my g-spot (spongy tissue near g-spot) with his fingers. As I felt that pleasure building instead of pulling they energy in and up she suggested you kind of…

Squirt on a mirror and let it dry. It looks like watery cum not like pee when it dries. It's milky & opaque not clear.

As I said in another response my SO ZZ worked on that show. There were days when this show drove ZZ bonkers. Imagine listening to clips of those voices over and over 8 hrs a day?!?