thank you.

Ok, so what about all the women who've already had this happen to them? How should they read this advice? Keep in mind, 1 in 5 women is a survivor, so you are likely addressing at least one already. Can you try for a second to put yourself in a rape victim's shoes and then read this well-meaning advice? Can you try to…

Please take a minute to think about the implications of your words. The "be smart" rhetoric is a VERY DAMAGING element of victim blaming. I have friends who have survived horrific assaults and they have spent many years thinking it was their fault because everyone tells us to "be smart". Because she lives in a world…

Three points from someone way smarter than you:

You can decide what overkill is for your own damn body. Once your body is put at risk every time you have sex for something that will drastically change your life, maybe you can make judgements about that.

You're kind of a moron.