Depends on what the goal is. I can't even tell what this guy's goal is throughout his entire letter.

Whenever someone starts anything with a qualifier like: I've worked here for this long, or I've done this, or I've supported you...or anything, it is usually the precursor to not receiving something they felt they deserved.

Yep, a lot of people don't seem to understand timing just isn't right for some people, and that's ok.

I don't have a sister. The point I was making was that most people treat attractive women on a pedestal when the should treat them like everyone else.

Nah, I've just seen guys like this all the time.

I did add a ? when he himself never added a single ? in his letter.

It is possible to be ignorant and entitled. He seems to be 'too nice' and because he has all these things can't figure out why women don't like him. Actually, he knows he is lacking in certain areas but somehow thinks because he has X, Y, and Z it should be easier?

agreed for the most part.

Are you reading anything? He wants women to like him. I told him women don't give a shit about your accolades or whatever you've accomplished. Look at them as human beings. How difficult is it to get that?

You're not reading, you're arguing. Dude didn't even say what he wanted or what he wanted to improve upon. He did however make note of describing what he has or has accomplished.

Nah, they'd be better off if they treated them like their sister. Most dudes treat attractive women as someone that can do something for them and that's where they mess up.

He doesn't say that? He's writing for dating advice. Why do you think he's writing in? I'd imagine if a guy was writing a column for advice it would be with the goal to get women to like him.

I don't care enough to dislike this person in the letter. He's just ignorant. I would hope he learns or gains some insight, but I don't care enough to dislike him.

It just depends on what you're goals are. To me, compatibility is more important than physical attraction. I know a lot of people will disagree but I'd rather spend time with someone I like being around. Then again, I don't ask people for dating advice.

Did you read the letter?

Hmmm...it's almost like I can see why women aren't digging him

hahaha

Well, the point he is making is that too nice is misinterpreted as timid. Timid isn't really an attractive trait. We all mess up doing or saying dumb things, but being timid isn't something you hear women rave about. I'd rather have a woman say he embarrassed himself and was able to laugh at it than have them say he…

If it's just first dates. Something small and low key seems to work. However, I'm older and actually like to get to know people. 20 y/o Nemo probably wouldn't care so much

I just think it's funny that these guys are all worried about being tied down or having a girl have feelings for them. Like that's the worst thing in the world. As long as people are upfront and honest, usually adults can get along fine.