It's not just fear... I freeze and then immediately feel consumed by anger and shame. I feel I've been reduced to a purpose, to a body, like the man took my personhood from me because he can just by whistling, like's reminded me where my real place is. And I can't do anything about that anger because there is no…

I think that's more the case for awkward come ons in bars, rather than catcalling. I mean, people cat call from cars driving past or while they're on a construction site. There is no 'numbers game' in the world that will lead a woman to chase down a car and jump in because one of the occupants yelled 'nice ass' at…

good men try to understand, they do. but they don't get it.

Fuck this guy in the ear. I wonder if DiBenedetto has a daughter? Or a son, for that matter? Do you think that he'd blame them if they were raped and dumped on their front doorstep and then had his house burned down because they tried to get some small crumb of justice for themselves? It's as if he can't believe these…

Just for sake of semantics:

"Try not to freak people out."

^That's the message. I think we, as a culture, have forgotten that the idea of courtesy is about making the other person feel comfortable, as much as we possibly can. It's not about interacting at all costs, because WE want to, or we think we should.

While I know I can't completely relate as a male, I have had situations where I felt hunted, or that I was a "target."

In my early 20's I did promotions for clubs and raves, one of the places that I spoke with talent managers was at a cliche named club called, "The Village." So while it was certainly flattering to…

Anybody who ever says "I'm not saying that..." is saying exactly that.

I get it. As much as someone whose not someone else, can. I've read "The Gift of Fear," I had many conversations about how often men are afraid (as in afraid they might get hurt or attacked) as opposed to women (crazy discrepancies!). I'm not overly sensitive, or whatever you call a guy whose super in touch with…

I feel like this is something boys need to be taught is wrong at a young age. As a dude, I honestly didn't appreciate the scope of the problem until I was in college, and female friends would tell me (frequent) insane stories about being catcalled with something so vile it made them immediately burst into tears, or…

Interesting. Hopefully this will make these catcallers think twice about doing it in future too. As a man I would never do it and I always found the whole idea embarrassing.

my fantasy is to not have to wear a bra at all, yet have buoyant and supported bewbz.

How boring-looking. And this is coming from me, who tends to wear boring plain black clothes under her boring plain black clothes.

Yeah, I don't think they really expect to sell it. I just hate the message. Too many people worrying how to feed their kids, real problems in the world, this shit just pisses me off. What would Marie Antoinette say? Let them wear Gilligan and O'Malley?

Honestly I'd like to know too because all I see is dollar-store level tacky :/ At some point I feel like having that many jewels just makes it look fake and ridiculous. Mais c'est la vie, to each their own.

Yes it's adorable but you know it's totally like: 'Die finger! Die die! I kill you finger! I kill you hand! And finger! And I give you more die... Oh box? What's inside box...? Oh darkness... And... Finger! You have returned to die! Die! Die!!!!!'

He also photographed Obama, so if you are going to criticize the Kardashians you most certainly should criticize Obama.

Yes, except that women are also expected to be shaved (legs and underarms) and have well-groomed hair. So makeup is just piling on.