Lambs you say ?

What about not killing and raping because you don't like to see people suffer??

She should have kept a spreadsheet showing the decrease in ejaculate over several months.

ROFL my thought exactly!

Well, if you read the thread, she called him and texted him and he never responded to her. So she did try to talk to him and he wasn't having any of it. It just boils down to respect, in general. A lot of women can relate to this. It's not infuriating to me that a guy wants to have sex more than he wants to watch TV;…

According to her she wants to have sex in the morning when she isn't all tired. He doesn't want to.

My ex had some pretty seductive moves.

On a Wednesday night, eight days after they'd last had sex, before dinner, with 2o minutes to fit it in? I don't mean to be judgy (I totally mean to be judgy), but that's... let's go with not a reasonable complaint... on his part. That's hey, take care of my dick real quick.

Right? I get that they're married and it's not going to be an elaborate dance of seduction every time, but it seems like he's asking at the exact moments when she's feeling most exhausted. Change it up, buddy. Jump her when she comes home from work instead of after dinner. Get in the shower with her after the gym. Try…

Reasons. Not excuses. And the fact that they are repetitive says that she is not into having sex when she gets home from the gym, yet he keeps asking.

This feels appropriate

That's exactly what I was thinking. I imagine he probably made an outright suggestion that they bone while she was clearly doing something else, and then complained/gave up when she didn't immediately hop on his dick. Sometimes it takes a little warming up before you go for it, you know? I have a pretty high sex…

Yes, especially since it's obvious that he tries while she's doing things. That makes me so angry. Whatever she's doing can wait, he wants to have sex like now! He probably starts bothering her in the middle of something she's doing, then pouts when she says she's busy right that minute, then the pouting puts her even…

I like the way you phrased that. "Work." Sex is supposed to be enjoyable for both parties, a way to reinforce intimacy, and your argument (and the argument of everyone else demanding she just give in sometimes) is that she should shut up and take it, give him a warm body to get off with. And hopefully it won't turn…

Or he could invite her into the shower, extra points points for sensual sudsing and washing her hair (but I'm guessing tenderness is not Mr. Excel's strong suite)

Noteworthy tidbit gleaned from spreadsheet: "I won't have time to get showered and ready for dinner" (we were 20min early)

Perhaps he should try initiating sex before she goes to the gym? Maybe in the morning before work? Being married means being part of a team, you're not trying to one-up the other person. These two are being petty with one another. That's the exact opposite of the point of being in a romantic relationship.

I feel like a more productive use of this spreadsheet would be to look at it and realize hitting her up after the gym is a bad time. Maybe she's a morning person.

Right, but.

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