You could have educated yourself instead of being a dick, but you didn’t. Now it’s on other people to delicately correct you?

Hahahahahaha, no way. Go fuck yourself. The concern trolling is coming off you like a vicious stench.

As someone with an earthworm phobia (yes, I know, they’re harmless, I’m lame and I need to get a better phobia lol), this is also what I thought and it was difficult to click on the post.

Can you get a springer spaniel and use it as a dog dish? :D

I hate to burst your bubble (because that was my initial theory as well), but according to The Internet, the things Meat Loaf won’t do for love are in the verse preceding the chorus:

Hey, so how about you go fuck yourself.

This totally makes sense to me and is what happened with my relationship. My current fiancé and I were friends for years, but because I had met him through his ex and he wasn’t entirely my type, I had this “relationship wall” up when it came to him. Eventually we hung out more and more and I realized how much I…

I agree that some people respond better to hand-holding. But the simpler solution than to criticize PoC or request that the conversations about race take into consideration white people’s feelings, is for white people to just shut the fuck up. If you’re listening and you don’t get it, just shut the fuck up and keep…

:O

I know, and I’m saying he’s not explaining how their own relationship is maintained, he’s explaining how they make the open relationship work.

Large weddings are not necessarily feeding into the WIC. And seriously? Weddings are getting smaller, not larger, over time.

Jesus christ. I guess it’s just beyond you to imagine that some people have genuine and fond relationships with the majority of their family and have many good friends that they’ve made over 20-40 odd years of life?

When did they say they don’t go out together ever as a couple? He’s explaining how they make their polyamory work, not their regular relationship.

LOL. You’re a real piece of work.

I actually think that it’s becoming more and more evident that you know nothing about non-monogamy or the polyamorous community in general or in specifics.

I think that even when experienced adults marry experienced adults, stuff comes up in life and in a relationship that people may not have had to confront before.

Nowhere in this piece does he say that he did not see his wife as an adult with sexual agency. Stop making shit up in your attempt to rationally validate your personal discomfort with non-monogamy.

He clearly understood that his wife was a person before this came up. Sometimes what people want in a relationship changes. Sometimes it hurts and sometimes it doesn’t. It’s not always people who want open relationship are myopic, selfish assholes.

He explains how the idea of an open marriage helped him understand feminism here:

Brad Paisley gave us the magic of “Accidental Racist” with LL Cool J! :D

Well if it’s childish to maintain commitments you’ve made to your partner and not betray them in one of the most horrible ways you can, I guess I’ll just sit in this corner with my Legos and Barbie® Glam Convertible.