He’s 30 years old, I’m gonna guess the idiocy is baked into the crust at this point.

I thought it was worth watching since his narrative seems to be getting more airtime than hers, but I don’t blame anyone for not wanting to. What a scumbag.

Thanks for the crash course, I literally couldn’t tell them apart other than knowing one got banned from Japan and the other one is trying to start a boxing career that won’t go anywhere. Now I will go back to ignoring them both.

Exactly. One of the best things about science is that it DOESN’T make claims of absolute truth.

I need you to point out both, because I’m not seeing it.

I’m gonna guess his mind already wasn’t right before he was cast, and the show just amplified his problems and made them public. Reality TV isn’t exactly known for its rigorous psych screening.

I mean hey, did anyone NOT think White Boy Summer would involve assaulting women?

Man that clip was hard to watch. I totally related to her description of being a naive young woman without much sexual experience, who just assumed he’d respect her boundaries since everyone else had so far. It’s such a shocking and jarring experience that makes you never feel fully safe being intimate with someone…

THANK YOU. You can blame Colton for being an abusive stalker (and I certainly do) but also acknowledge that growing up in a culture where compulsive heterosexuality is normalized and “manhood” is defined by aggressive sexual prowess with women probably helped to make him that way.

Gay men can be controlling and abusive to women. And it’s not uncommon for closeted gay men who hate themselves to take out their frustrations on female partners. It’s not like gayness is a magical forcefield protecting them from the same cultural misogyny and toxic masculinity straight men are socialized with.

I wouldn’t be surprised if Harrison tries to win back the woke points he lost by bringing Colton back as the first gay Bachelor and touting it as some big brave historic moment. I get that he’s a stalker, but he certainly wouldn’t be the first mentally unstable person they cast, and I’m sure they could find enough…

LW’s sister is also taking a lot better care of herself, or did you miss the part where she recovered from an eating disorder??

Thank you. I feel like the LW is really minimizing the depth of her husband’s fucked-upness, perhaps to preserve her own sanity. Eating disorders are deadly diseases. The fact that he hates her sister for being fat could be detrimental to her recovery and his own daughter’s long term health. 

I’m gonna guess this person is more familiar with Demi Lovato’s addiction patterns than you or I, and knows moderation isn’t going to work for her. Hell just based on reading this article, I’m highly doubtful it’ll work for her. Whether you subscribe to 12 step dogma or not, there are lots of people it doesn’t work…

I didn’t want to say it, but yeah. This is a grown ass man who is no relation to him. I’m all for unconventional families, but not claiming him until he’s an adult is...odd. And oddly convenient.

This is a really dumb way of saying you don’t believe her. If she’d been wearing flesh colored panties, he still would’ve told her to remove them because the light was reflecting off them or some other bullshit reason, because the goal was to coerce her into getting a crotch shot. Have you even heard of Paul Verhoeven?

Why do you have to be “asked”, begged, pleaded with, or have a “family discussion” to clean up your own fucking mess? If you lived alone without a wife to clean up after you, would you just let the filth pile up endlessly until a random woman came in off the street to ask you to clean it up? If not, you clearly know…

As a Black woman, I gotta disagree with this one. Locking down accounts and removing old racist/sexist/homophobic tweets is pretty much Employability 101 at this point. Not tweeting them in the first place is even better. Nearly all recruiters for high-profile jobs check social media. Parsing out “ignorant” vs.…

Wow, is she Black? The Sunken Place is getting awfully full lately, just saying.

They absolutely cast Lee to cause drama - I think I recall Harrison even admitting it at one point. Except he framed it as “starting a discussion”, which is pretty awful to the woman who presumably believed they cast these men as potential husband material, as well as the other Black cast members who just wanted to be…