Girl, bye. You just want to have an attitude, and you're not raining on my parade. I asked my question, made several follow up points, and you still haven't addressed not a one. Don't be mad because you got called out for that stupid ass comment. :) Its a beautiful day in the city of Boston, and I intend to go out and…

Ok, I get you. The only place I've heard it with a positive connotation is in the South, which is why I asked that. Like I said, my kids get upset when someone calls them that, so I'm interested in other ways that it's used.

What was yours again? I noticed you didn't address any of my points, so obviously you have no idea what you're talking about. Maybe you're just having a bad day. I don't know nor do I care. But don't come for me unless I send for you, boo.

I think it might be regional differences. Up here in the Northeast, you don't call someone ratchet. The kids at my high school take it as an insult, which they should. You basically just called someone ghetto when you call them ratchet. In the words of my kids, "I'm not about that life!"

Really?!! Because I work at a high school and those are fighting words. It's the same as calling someone ghetto up here in the North. I'm only 26 myself, and I would be really pissed if someone called me, a WOC, ratchet. It would be a problem. Do you live in the South? I know words can be used differently.

Oh ok. Thank you for informing me what I meant and my intentions. I'm obviously too stupid to figure that out on my own. I just wanted to know why single motherhood (I guess being a single father isn't a risk. And that WAS snark) is considered risky behavior, like smoking. And under what you're saying, being a parent…

Very true. I'll never forget when I got hit by a car and brought to the ER. The doctor obviously did not believe me and interrogated me, asking a least 5 times for me to explain how the accident happened. She gave me a prescription for motrin, even though I had a torn ligament in my knee and it was the worst pain I've…

Thank you for this! I've dropped 30 pounds recently, and am working towards dropping another 50. Not because I'm ashamed of my body, but because I want to be in better shape. Anyway, I was talking to this guy and I was telling him that I don't eat red meat or pork, and that I would love to become a vegatarian, but…

No snark, but how is single motherhood considered risky behavior....?

So, he's black on the inside.....?

I know people hate Kanye (I personally think that he's insane), but you should really listen to his music. New Slaves is amazing! When he got to the point where he talked about the private prison system, I had to give a snap for that. He's an artist....and artists tend to be bat shit crazy. His body of work can't be…

I would say that the Rock & Roll Hall of Fame would disagree with you. If you don't like rap, then cool. Lots of people don't. But to discount an entire genre, a genre that has made some incredible art over the past 30 years, is insane. Public Enemy, KRS-One, Tupac, Biggie, Missy Elliot, Nas and many others have made…

His name is Kid Fury and I PROMISE that you will become addicted to him. Look him up on youtube.

I don't wanna be TMI right now, but I go between shaving it all off and just trimming it. It's weird, because it's pretty sparse as it is, but the little hairs can get kinda long. I was seeing this guy and he was excited that I hadn't shaved. I was like "SCOOOOOOOORE! NO MORE SHAVING FOR ME!".

I feel really bad if she wasn't able to find someone to watch the baby, but wouldn't have been appropriate to just bow out when the party headed to a bar? I'm sure everyone would have understood, even more so if there were other moms there. I just don't get it. The baby was probably uncomfortable too with all the loud…

We're the same age bracket, so I totes get it, girl. And, I couldn't resist this.

Yes! And this too!

Noooooo, Lindy! This is the MUCH better Nicole Wray song! This was my jam in junior high.

I forgot to add that this happened last summer and this dude still calls me. Like, he'll call me back to back and leave this rambling messages about me knowing his number and why do I have a phone if I never answer. I told him really explicitly that I have no interest in him, but he still calls me.

How about Can't-Take-A-Fucking-Hint/Why-In-The-FUCK-Did-You-Hook-Me-Up-With-Him Guy, which sadly for me, was the same guy. A friend of mine (ex-friend now, not because of this, although looking back, I think she was trying to shade me) hooked me up with this guy that she grew up. He was okay-looking, not really my…