Agreed, if she had been snooping, the only advice I would give is to stop. It doesn't matter what she found. But, we don't know, so I think it's bet to focus on what we do know.
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I wasn't referring to you specifically and in fact that comment was to someone else, there are comments on this thread by people who can't seem to wrap their heads around the idea that he might have just come out and told her. Those are the people I'm talking about/to.
It can, if they are the type of couple who asks each other for advice. Maybe she didn't have the answer and he okayed her writing in to a blog for help.
3. The boyfriend told her, he doesn't like keeping secrets and regularly confides in her on a variety of topics. Maybe he even asks for advice.
Okay, but the wording of most of these comments is very put out, like the assumption is that some invasion of privacy happened. Not everyone is comfortable keeping secrets from their partners.
Too bad, it's a shitty situation that could have been solved by the boyfriend telling his friend to fuck off. Sorry, but I don't consider asking for advice creating drama, what the fuck do want from her? Total apathy? This guys behavior is straight up abusive, he's the one creating drama. Also, it's actually entirely…
Okay, but what's the downside of telling your girlfriend about something like this? I mean, it's not like he asked for the dick pics so how does telling her hurt your relationship? Particularly if it's part of a pattern of behavior that she is already aware of.
Unless he told her because he felt the need to be honest and maybe wanted some advice. That can happen too and I don't get why the automatic assumption is that she was snooping.
My thoughts exactly, maybe they just have an honest relationship and he felt the need to inform he of some inappropriate behavior being directed towards him. He may have even asked her for advice on how to respond. It's pretty normal and healthy to do that.
My mom and I doing that right now! It's a girls day, you understand. Later, we're stealing our neighbors white horse and surgically attaching a horn to her head. I flunked out of vet school, but I'm sure it'll be fine.
Who Phil? He said that blacks were better off during segregation, and that gays had murder in their hearts, whatever that means. If you're talking about the op, yeah he just called right wingers on their hypocrisy and referred to Phil's speech as racist and homophobic. If you're talking about someone else, then you're…
Yeah, I have yet to see MRA's donate to a shelter for male domestic abuse or rape victims or to assist a man in getting custody from an abusive ex wife. Trolling seems to be the extent of their activism.
I feel like it's a combination of the two. Black men are seen as violent and unpredictable in our society in a way black women don't seem to be. It's like the reverse of the mind blowingly high rape rates in Native women. Yes, it's absolutely about the hyper sexualized stereotype that exists about these women, which…
Yeah, I have a love hate relationship with the ocean because MONSTERS.
You're right, there's nothing more ignorant than being okay with bigotry. Good call.
Intolerance of intolerance is not intolerance. It's standing against the idea that freedom is only for a special group of people. In the case of Phil, only white straight people deserve to be treated like humans in his eyes. Because lets face it, when you want to deny someone of fundamental human rights, it's because…
Don't forget that he also thinks segregation was totes awesome for minorities.
Stop talking to yourself. Goofball.
Yup, how dare we dislike people who want to restrict the rights of others.