Bitch Stick?

Context: Considerably more important than intent.

Uh, yeah. I might. I might not. Depends on if you're being a dick or not. Or, y'know, if you're trans.

Oh yes, intent. That magical thing that makes offensive crap not offensive anymore!

Yeah I think if you didn't know that was the MLK monument your white priviledge might be getting in the way. Unless you're not American, since it's an American monument.

I thought the same thing. I've never had a woman say to me, "I like him, but his pet really turns me off." Unless they were also saying something to the effect of "I could never date someone who lives among that much poop. Who raised this slob?"