The thing that's so stupid about it all is the conservative, sexist status-quo upholders use this to pretend that feminists can never have hot sexy sex in this one way. No, you dumb motherfuckers! We can have an actually fun, intellectually stimulating relationship with someone we love and trust who respects us and…

Yeah, as I said elsewhere in the thread, I could well be wrong. For whatever reason, most of the models I have known were relatively short...I guess the people I knew were actually photo models also in ads and stuff in LA. Those people are always miniature. And then I have met some runway models here in Singapore, but…

You know, the internet makes people be assholes.I shouldn't have told you to fuck off. Sorry about that. I was merely expressing forceful disagreement all-too-forcefully.

My little sister actually had a problem with this issue. Dude in question was super-hot, and had a 12" dick for real. He had measured because he was all proud and shit, but damn, every dude would have been proud! You know he made the other cops in the cop shop feel all bad and inadequate. He probably single-handedly…

Ah God, no fuck you! If you want to talk about when a woman has "property of Jake" tattooed really big in stencil font all down her inner thigh, then I might go with you (but she might be into that, and she might be making him pretend to be named Jake!). But hickeys? That just tells you a woman likes to get bitten on…

STOP JUDGING ME! I wish my husband could give me more hickeys. He has a wirds overbite problem that leaves him unable to bite my neck properly. If he manages to get that thing working, all bets are off. Let's get on the monorail to Hickeytown.

Wealthy != high-caste. Also, what do you think happens when a group of dude-bro, rich, high-caste Indian guys rape a maid who works at one of the guy's family's place? That's right, nothing! Thanks for playing. No, seriously, you're an awesome commenter and I don't want to get in a flamewar with you, but saying…

Happily I never heard of this while I was pregnant. I think it probably has more to do with a combination of genetics/chance placement of the placenta than anything else. I've only been pregnant twice, though—I expect SCIENCE has a better idea than anxious women online who have been scammed by some new horrible beauty…

Still, though, have you heard of abdominal separation?

A lot of people are alcoholics or come from a family with a long history of alcoholism. For a long time I had a mom and step-dad who were active alcoholics, and a dad and step-mom who smoked killer weed 8-10 times a day. Shall I leave it up to you to guess which side of the family was beating kids up, sexually…

What are your high-school friends even for?

DO NOT EVER APPLY MAKEUP WHILE TRIPPING ON ACID. FOR REAL THOUGH.

What the fuckity fuck? India has its own struggles with its caste system, and those problems can reinforce or cut across other social justice goals. But for someone to say "higher caste Indians aren't as sexist" is bulllllssshiittt. If the person is a high caste Indian, it's self-serving bullshit. If the person is…

I got into a horrible flamewar with someone about it at Gawker four days ago; I'm probably still punch-drunk.

That cruel speculation at the end of your post—is true! Here's the part where internet assholes lie to you, but I am not an asshole, so I'm not going to lie to you. When I lived in South Carolina as a kid, and when I lived in D.C., I had friends who were black. I live in Singapore now and there's almost no people of…

I'm sorry that you have to face so much racist bullshit. So much that in order for you to go about daily life not consumed by rage you need to 'ignore' it or 'take a joke' or whatever racists are trotting out as the new 'sorry-notsorry". Basically it sounds like you have to let it roll off your back, and that just…

OK, I could well be wrong. I actually have trouble identifying myself in photos (where I appear as a figure not close to the camera) sometimes because I have such an unrealistic mental image of what I look like, so, yeah, maybe I'm wrong. I just remember a thin friend who stopped modeling just because she was unhappy…

That's...a mindblowingly good point.

My paternal grandmother said the same thing! She was named Henrietta! They had 6 generations of uninterrupted women being named Henrietta, till my dad (only child) and me (not named Henrietta) fucked things up. I love the name Henrietta, and was going to use her mom's nickname "Rhietta." Nope. She said she'd haunt me…

Aww, man. My family has a lot of Mayhew as middle names. Then, otherwise, it has a lot of last names as first names because: WASP infinite no backsies. What's that? Your first name is Livingston? What could be more natural. Nonetheless: familial over the internet fistbump.