And how many kids do you have? Or are you a virgin?

Took the words out of my mouth. A young and financially insecure birth makes things a helllll of a lot harder no matter how rosy and upbeat your disposition. Those are just the facts.

100% pro-choice here, and it's wonderful that abortion is shown as a medical procedure without stigma, but really?! In a wedding announcement? Did the best man give a rousing speech about their union and also mention Haslem's painful kidney stones? Or athlete's foot? Bizarre thing to include.

I'm a little surprised that creampie is so popular. I mean, I guess it makes sense, but I never got the appeal, as a guy.

"Asian" and "Ebony" seem to reflect demographics a bit. At least, enough so that people looking for porn stars that share their ethnicity probably have a lot to do with it.

She's a porn star. Apparently, all of Nevada is only attracted to one woman.

I consider myself pretty well versed in porn lingo, but can someone tell me what on earth "anita queen" means? the "queen" part I get, but "anita"? Is it like a Bart Simpson prank call name for "I need a queen"? (please don't yell at me: I'm at work on lunch, so I'm afraid to Urban Dictionary it. )

Can we talk about how not a single black person won an award last night even though the people who did win awards have been mining black music and culture for years?

And all that happened on the anniversary of Aaliyah's death.

Yes. We're of the same mind here (and everywhere, apparently, because I keep commenting on your posts). She is twenty, she has a sick body, she's pushing the envelope in the same way every other pop-starlet that grew up in the spotlight has...whatever. You know? Sure. Go for it, Miley.

Okay.... but can we talk about the problematic and racist nature of her performance? Her literal use of people as props? Her association of her newfound sexuality with the traditional codifiers of black female culture, thereby perpetuating the Jezebel stereotype that black women are lewd, lascivious and uncontrollably…

Yes. It's ok to say if the performance was terrible if the performance is terrible. She didn't sing well, didn't dance well, and just generally looked awful with her tongue hanging out of her mouth and fondling herself and others with that damn foam finger.

But wont someone think of the slut shaming?!?!?!?

I understand that we don't want to slut shame Miley. The thing is... are we not allowed to criticize this performance? I have seen a lot of slut shamey posts about it, but also a lot of comments on how ridiculous she looked — which is distinctly different than looking like a whore. She came out of that bear and my…

The whole thing just looked stupid, Miley's singing was awful, and her tongue just looks incredibly unappealing. I'm sorry. There is something weird about her tongue.

I don't care about her using her sexuality in whatever way she wants. I've seen that before. We've all seen that before. It doesn't disturb me. I'm pretty sure her repeated use of black people as props is what grosses me out the most.

YOU DO NOT HAVE THE RIGHT TO DETERMINE SOMEONE ELSE'S GENDER FOR THEM. YOU DO NOT GET TO DECIDE WHEN SOMEONE IS TRANSGENDERED OR NOT. YOU DO, HOWEVER, NEED TO HAVE BASIC RESPECT FOR OTHER HUMAN BEINGS, AND REFER TO THEM WITH THE GENDER PRONOUNS THAT THEY REQUEST.

That's fine that you don't care. But do you know who really cares? The gay population who are disenfranchised.

"The difference is history and power."

That is so offensive that you would suggest that "speaking proper" for black people is us trying to be white. My mind is blown.