Stay at home Geek Dad here. I could use a pep talk. I was crying today from just a horribly SHITTY comment leveled at me on the comments thread about my job. I was commenting on the Border crisis of children in the SW. The person said because I was a stay at home Dad, I didn't have a real job, and that since I didn't…

That feeling isn't exclusive to food service, and it's always glorious. Though, in my experience when things get so bad you actually don't give a shit if you get fired and let everyone know you're fucking done, is when they never seem to fire you.

It's generally the stupid, seemingly inconsequential little shit that…

There's a point in food service where you breach the "no fucks to give, fire me, I don't even fucking care" barrier. It is a glorious point, at least in retrospect.

What beach is this? I'm curious because I live in FL and go to the beach between NSB and Bethune sometimes and take walks and leave my stuff on the beach. This looks an awful lot like that beach.

Alternative hypothesis - women are more in charge and discriminating in who they spend their time with and some men can't accept that. I posit that the liberation of women from men financially has basically prevented a lot of bad relationships from forming where the man dictates everything and the woman complies cause…

What I don't get is how the "abuse" line of hardcore porn can be considered okay. Even professional wrestlers pretend to hit and choke each other. But this is full on beating of women, and equally as bad, psychological torture. I'm not saying the porn industry used to be wholesome or anything like that - it was always…

I feel like there's a misunderstanding here of hardcore fetishes VS a cultural normalization for violence towards women. In BDSM, there is consent present for violent activity (i.e. you might very well like your husband to beat you up and enjoy it). Mainstream violent porn on the other hand doesn't present this as…

You would think, right? I never understood why either. I remember the surgeon telling his patients; "Look, that's a one way street."

I feel the same way. I know that not everyone's crank is turned by the same thing, but geez, I find porn too disturbing to be sexy. I'd be severely annoyed if one of my kids decided to be porn stars. I think porn in it's current form is rotten to the core. It's not like that stupid shit that came on Cinemax or the…

Seriously, why would you do that? It's not like you show up to the set and the director says "okay, today instead of a gangbang, we're pulling out your rectum" and you have to say yes or you don't get paid. This is something you have to spend time training for — time you could spend, IDK, running far away or applying…

I read Haunted. Read that scene on a bus, with the book barely cracked, wincing through my fingers like a movie...a few lines, face crumpling, looking out the window...breathing..then cautiously glancing at the barely open book....My buttocks were so tightly clenched during all this they could have collapsed upon…

People like you renew my faith in humanity...if that even is possible at this point. I am so revolted by how mainstream this kind of thing is becoming. And we wonder why women get so many death threats and rape threats for pointing out rape culture and male privilege.

This.

Yeah... I just skimmed and saw ANAL PROLAPSE and noped down to the comments.

Everything I wanted to say and more. Thank you for this. Prepare for the backlash from the idiot libertarians who usually defend grotesque violent porn.

The thing that freaks me the most about all of this is that they wouldnt be producing this stuff if there wasnt a market for it. Which means there is a whole market...a large group of people walking around this world I share with them....who want to see this crap.

I first saw the horrors of it in gay bdsm videos years ago. It was a fetish there for a while with things like fist fucking, double fisting, etc. I should have known that "Gay Blooming Rose" was a bad idea to click on. Pray to all that is holy that urethra probing never goes mainstream.

Everyone is blowing this is off as some weird fetish-y thing and missing Mark's larger point: this is becoming normal. Let me repeat that again: hardcore, extreme and often dangerous sexual acts, overwhelmingly involving women, are becoming more and more normalized. Things that should be seasoned fetishes and…

Dont' worry. I've got it covered.

Why stop at the rectum, then? I want to get really nasty. I want to climb inside the GI tract like a Lilliputian spelunker with a video camera and check out that sigmoid colon, that transverse colon, that cecum, that small intestine, till we get to the stomach, baby. I want to see those mucous-covered walls churn food…