Or create a problem for the council workers who have to fix the wad of not degrading plastic and/or cotton with blood and waste and paper. I can’t wrap my head around that. Never ever flush anything but your waste and the toilet paper (and sometimes not even the paper in some countries).

Because that fucks up any and all plumbing that’s only able to handle quickly degrading toilet paper and waste. Not wads of cotton that stick to stuff and don’t degrade for months or sometimes years. I mean, if you want to drive the message home that a guy should provide a trashcan leave a tampon on the toilet seat or…

Hahaha, I’d leave a tampon on the edge of the toilet for him. Get a damn trashcan, not because you are now all of a sudden a family man (?? are trashcans somehow not bachelor-esque?) but because everyone, including bachelors, has trash.

Yeah, definately. I also get the feeling that men get treated like they have no emotions at all, and women are constantly on the verge of tears. Let’s just agree that some people are able to separate sex and feelings and some aren’t. I had feelings for a guy that he didn’t share, and another guy had feelings for me…

Urine is damaging as fuck to natural stones. So no the landlord is not being an asshole. Try peeing on marble for an extended period of time. The judge actually said that an expert had confirmed the damage was done by urine, but also that the landlord should have told the man beforehand about the easily damaged…

I can understand when you are discussing experience with a friend or partner. I talked with my bf about it because it was relevant to the discussion about what we had and hadn’t done before. I don’t know if the actual number was mentioned, but we definately discussed previous partners.

You mentioned it elsewhere too, but sex is not that easy to define, it means many things to different people, and to say it is only physical is not true for many people. What is sex? Touching? Over or under clothes? Naked or clothed? Genitals touching? p-i-v? etc. It’s a nebulous concept and hard to define, intent…

The problem here is virginity as a concept is hopelessly flawed. When are you not a virgin, and when are you? I would say first experience with sex and that can be anything sexual. To me rape does not fall under the category of sex, mostly under the heading of crime. That also has its problems of course.

Yeah, wolves don’t even have alphas in the wild. They live in a family group with two parents and pups/older offspring until the next litter. Zoo animals have very different behaviour than wild animals, which seems so obvious. :)

The dominance thing is based on faulty research on zoo wolves (who are 1. not dogs and 2. not wild wolves who behave VERY differently) so try to avoid those. Positive training with praise and treats for good behaviour and “No”s for bad behaviour caught in the act works best. The way Cesar trains dogs is very…

And this whole being the alpha shtick is bullshit too. It’s based on research on wolves (who are not dogs, last I checked, and haven’t lived with humans for 10.000s of years) and the research was done in zoos, where, it turns out, wolves display different behaviour than in the wild where they live in family groups…

I mentioned a relative unknown author in my profile, and the best opening was from a guy who knew the author. This opening signaled a lot of things to me: he’s interested in the same stuff I am, and attentive enough to notice it, and well-read enough to remember a line from one of his books. So he made a great first…

While I agree that not everything is in a vacuum, when a white singer claims to have invented a style when she didn’t IS appropriation. Claiming it as your own, and not crediting the actual innovators is shitty and happes too often.

That I would. :P

Only the kids of slutty sluts who want to have babies for the sweet sweet money single parenthood brings in. You know, those babies. Because being a single parent is a hoot.

I always love how those babies are suddenly “fatherless”. Because the lady got her self pregnant for those sweet sweet dollars. Because single parenthood is such a hoot.

Also, the father (or a relative of the mother, presumably a man) need to ensure that the child is supported. Because single mums never work and are always unable to support their child. Always. *sigh*

Um. She’s a vampire and maybe bisexual/lesbian and was a prostitute. But as far as I can tell Pam has a pretty lack of interest in politics. :P

To me it sounds like its not so muh cheaters vs non-cheaters but more like people who think they can actively shape their life vs people who feel they only get to passively react. But admittedly I know little about anything at all. :P

Well, diamonds are super easy to smuggle and very popular to smuggle, because tiny and still lots of value. Also pretty hard to track down, so warlords love to use them to buy guns and kill people, and the mines are aware of possible smuggling so sometimes they gut people who are suspected of swallowing a diamond...…